this! It’s genuinely so odd when people shame you too for wanting effort from your friends. It’s not unreasonable for me to wanna see my friends more than twice a year & communicate consistently. I’ve given up on friendships fr not worth the headache.
why don’t people wanna put in effort into friendships these days? Sorry but being busy is a lame excuse to never see your friends. We’re adults, most of us are busy & tired 😒
Ugh yes it’s so strange & disheartening. People treat friends like they’re not relationships too that need nurturing, consistency & effort. But when it comes to a romantic relationship they have no problem showing up.
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Yes! Im glad you were able to find that community it’s truly a blessing & seems to be rare these days. I’m in a long term relationship but nothing can ever replace the feeling of girlhood. The lack of empathy & effort is so rampant 😭