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avoidant asf , ik it’s bad but i can only do intimacy if im not sober 😭 someone also relate so I don’t feel bad
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Anonymous 6w

My fwb could relate to this post 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

How do u deal with it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Slowly losing my mind actually 😆 I also realized I’m an anxious attachment. Once I began working on myself he became less avoidant. I still have moments but I know to reel myself in. Purposely making healthy space makes him curious to lean back in and keeps me less anxious.

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