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IM SCARED one of my safe guy friends just started texting me on snap asking about my day SEND HELP SNED HELP
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Anonymous 1d

Uh oh

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Anonymous 1d
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Anonymous 1d

Honestly you might need to sus it out a bit. Sometimes guys are just genuine and wanna know how you’re doing. Most other times, you’re right to be afraid that he’s no longer a safe guy

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Anonymous 1d

Yea I ask my friends this all the time what lol?

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Anonymous 1d

genuinely one of the worst feelings!!!! that stomach drop you get when a guy “friend” shows his true intentions is so nauseating. i hope he’s just being friendly <3

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Thank you for reacting properly. Everyone else is in my DM‘s saying it’s not that big of a deal. But I’m scared.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If you want him to stay as a safe guy, you need to set up a boundary fast

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I WILL! but also dont wanna be mean because he could be genuine!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

I am! If hes just being genuine idc, but like also dont wanna trust it so bad & be blindsided if he confesses his love one day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yup. As the high school boy who did just that it’s certainly a possibility to consider. Nowadays I just sit back, send a text every few days to check in and leave it at that. Out of the blue though? Bad signs imo as a guy

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