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Confessions 13h
apparently not being attracted to certain race makes me racist? like no i'm not going to give up my pussy just to prove i'm a good person 💀💀💀
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Anonymous 13h

I’m genuinely only attracted to my own like it’s not racist unless ur racist to others you don’t need to be inclusive just to have people approve lmao

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Anonymous 12h

1. Many times, “preferences” are just racism disguised. Majority of the time when I hear someone say they dont like my race they follow it up with a stereotype. 2. If you’re not attracted to a certain race or whatever tf you REALLY dont need to announce it. What is the point of letting a certain group of ppl know you’re not attracted to them? Unless someone that you’re not attracted to is pursuing you you don’t need to say anything

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Anonymous 13h

Quit holding out and slang that thanggg lol jkjk im messing around. Save it for someone that earns it

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Anonymous 13h

It’s just kinda weird when you say you could absolutely never be attracted to someone of a certain race, just because they’re that certain race

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Anonymous 13h

lol they blocked me I didn’t even reply to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

certain races have certain features that not everybody might find attractive. i can't force myself to be attracted to everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Could we have an example

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Downvoting will not change my attraction lmao I will only date my own race deal with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

i like men with small noses, straight-wavy hair, and pale skin. those features aren't exclusive to any one race but chances are, a black guy won't look like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

date who u want lmao. as long as you treat everybody with respect, fuck what anybody else thinks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

If those are you standards I can’t change that But it’s a little sad to see people write off other people entirely because their skin is too dark or their hair isn’t straight enough

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Yes always! I do not think anyone is less than just because they’re another race or anything I just have the ones I’m attracted too and I will only date that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

its not sad, everybody has a type and thats ok. dating is inherently selective

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I’m allowed to think it’s sad just as you’re allowed to be picky with skin color

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Personally, it’s all about personality for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

i agree with both points! its not fair to put anyone down, and i never openly share my preferences unless im explicitly asked but i will say, ppl belonging to the same race tend to share physical features- that isn't stereotyping, just pattern recognition however, it IS stereotyping to assume everyone will all act the same way, that isn't fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Preference for features is ofc different than having a preference bc you believe a certain race acts a different way, and that’s what I was talking abt

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

gotcha. glad we could discuss this in a healthy way lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Yeah ofc! I think people could benefit from having more calm/amicable discussions instead of jumping straight to arguments and insults unprovoked

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