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I overthink a lot and randomly get worried that my current gf won’t be my future wife. She hasn’t done anything and says she’s not leaving the relationship, but she doesn’t want to make promises about the future, so she’ll just let things play out and see
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Anonymous 1d

I have a friend who also didn’t want to talk about the future anymore because it made her feel held down by everything being planned because she just wanted to live in the moment and let life play its course. Eventually he kept doing it so much and burdening her with his own mental problems even though they went through the same she got better and moved on but he was still stuck and he finally got help he needed because of her but eventually it got to a point she felt stuck and in an anxious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Cycle, but my point is of course just try to respect her and I know this is a dumb thing to say but try to not feel so anxious and think about the future too much, try to enjoy the present :). (I overthink WAY too much with my bf too so I get how u feel!)

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