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I’ve been having like an ongoing mental breakdown today bc my husband told me last night that a woman he works with made a move on him. He rejected her and I don’t blame him, but the fact that the situation happened and he’ll still see her upsets me.
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Anonymous 18h

i’m sorry OP, super happy your husband was honest with you and trusts you with the information, i know it can definitely make you worry and uncomfortable but i think since he told you immediately it shouldn’t be too concerning longterm, just continue to have open communication and journal if needed

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Anonymous 18h

Happens to my dad all the time and he tells them to fucc off

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Anonymous 17h

Did you cheat too tho op? Saw a quote that said that.

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Anonymous 18h

imagine being a grown married adult and you still have this high school ass mentality lol. emotional immaturity problem in this country is craaaaaazy

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Anonymous 15h

He has to go to work and make money. If her behavior persists, he should press charges for harassment

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Anonymous 18h

No not at all, I already said I don’t blame him. It just sucks that he’ll have to see her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Good for him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

he will j ignore her like any other annoying colleague

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I know he’ll ignore her as much as he can but with his job that’s not always possible

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Yeah you’re right it’s great that he told me immediately. I’m sure I’ll get over it eventually. But right now I’m just majorly stressing thinking about him at work with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

what are you trying to say? i’m genuinely confused

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

What’s high school about my mentality?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

i’m convinced this has to be rage bait, you’re just expressing your emotions which is actually pretty mature

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

being insecure because another woman flirted with your husband. like welcome to the adult world the rest of us live in lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

maturity is trusting your partner enough to not be bothered by the fact that they’re in the same office as someone who flirted with them once. grow tf up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

she’s not being insecure, she trusts her husband obviously but she has no reason to trust a random woman he works with, the woman probably knew previously that he was married and didn’t care to respect that boundary so why wouldn’t OP worry? heaven forbid she cares about her husband

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

what is there to worry about? if she actually trusts her husband, then she’s just letting this other woman live rent-free in her head. what’s this woman going to do, roofie her husband? give me a break lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

because the woman OP’s husband already ignored boundaries, it’s pretty obvious and i already said that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

She did more than just flirt. I’m worried about a woman my husband works with crossing boundaries and making him uncomfortable

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

Here for the same reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

No I’ve never fucking cheated on him.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

just ignore these people, they don’t get it and they’re obviously not married, just focus on your marriage hun

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

tbh you shouldn’t be married and posting on an app designed for college students but go off queen

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

I am a college student. I’m a junior in undergrad.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Nah you did 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

wow you fucked up big time lmfao. hit me up in 5 years after that divorce if you ever become less insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

oh no, she was raped and you guys are using it against her? you’re actually disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

“I can tell” what a weirdo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

We’re never getting a divorce you desperate weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

I’m not using anything against her, I came to the og post to find proof of her cheating for myself and obviously did not find anything. I never accused anybody of anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

She’s obviously lying 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Calling someone insecure, insulting their relationship, and then flirting is a weird choice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

Do you have any proof or are you just assuming that anybody who says they were raped is lying?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

Just in the careless way she talks about it. Plus if someone else on this app cared enough to call her out every time she posts then the full story must make it pretty obvious n shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

Do you expect people who’ve been raped and SA’d to just constantly talk about it like it JUST happened?? Like she said, it was a while ago. Mfs like you are why rape is under-reported.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

divorce rate for people that get married younger than 20 is 60% but no i’m sure you’ll be one of the exceptions as long as you keep that flirty coworker in check 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

you’re such a dick, acting like you know anything about their relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

yeah i’ll let you know when i start giving a fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

Lucky for us we got married over the age of 20.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

oh sorry 59.9% then my bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

bitch like i care lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

27% for my age group. Which is actually lowered by 40% since we have a child, so we’re like 16-17% likely to get a divorce. Big whoop.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

lmfaooo getting married and having a child before you even graduate college 😭 i can smell the evangelical christianity and low iq scores through my phone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

We are casual Catholics and my husband is an Ivy League law school graduate. It wasn’t the timeline we originally planned but we’re happy with what we have.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

sure he is. sure he is.

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