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Is it clingy of me to be upset for my bf not responding to my texts all day even when we are roommates in college (he gone back to his fams place a couple of days ago.) like i just want a text asking how my finals went or how was my day
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Anonymous 12h

I think it’s understandable from both yalls povs because yes you’re used to talking all the time and you miss him and I would want check in texts too but at the same time he’s gone home with his family it makes sense to be more distant while he spends time with them - doesn’t mean he shouldnt reach out to check in and you should let him know it bothers you he hasn’t responded

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Anonymous 10h

This sounds like something you both should have a conversation over and see where you can meet in the middle. Neither of you are wrong but it just sounds like a fundamental difference in how you both handle time away from each other.

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Anonymous 12h

hi so i dated a man like this for a year and he never changed. be convinced me i was crazy and exhausting for asking for things like that. for what i saw as basic communication. turns out he had tinder for months and wasn’t really as invested as he said he was. i’d look into that. not to worry you. but these men ain’t shit.

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Anonymous 11h

How are yall roommates is this like a gay thing ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Its annoying cuz i agree on how its basic communication especially when he is on that phone all the damn time

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

While i agree, the last time he responded was 6 pm yesterday. Its been more than 24 hrs 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

Yes lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Ah, more than 24 hrs is crazy. He best return with a good explanation I’m sorry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

Funny when the roles are reversed the man is called insecure

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