Anonymous #2 1w

Older men are actually kinda based rn, I've found

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Anonymous #2 1w

Like they actually are good ppl with empathy and morals and EQ who respect and want to protect women

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Anonymous #2 1w

How much older? I’m curious

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1w

Millennial and young Gen X men There's still plenty of wack millennial men out there, but even the worst millennials are MUCH safer and better than the average Gen Z man 😭 They all talk about how bad they feel for young girls/women (bc of the Gen Z guys). Like a lot of them are aware of how awful and demented Gen Z guys are

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Anonymous #2 1w

Interesting

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Anonymous lightbluehater 1w

Rn the men I'm closest with/feel the safest around are a 40 yr old mechanic, my 44 yr old manager, and this 60 yr old regular at my job 💀

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Anonymous #3 1w

That's cool, and I do love that and deeply thank y'all for all that. But can y'all please stop beating and raping and murdering us and trying to legally turn us into human incubators/sex slaves? I actually personally WANT to like men. I just feel so unsafe and scared around y'all. And am constantly exposed to genuinely disgusting rhetoric and actions taken by men. And live in a world where men are constantly trying to control my bodily autonomy, and how I personally lead my life.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Well that’s part of life. There are bad people of both sexes. There’s no way to stop that completely. Theres women who rape, murder, take child custody just to get money, marry and divorce just to get money, lie, cheat, gaslight, and I can go on. Does knowing that fact mean I’m never going to talk to a woman cause I assume all women are like that? No. Cause I know there are good and bad people

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Anonymous #3 1w

at the end of the day, there’s a statistics from the FBI that man contribute to 90% of crimes, rapes, murders, and etc. you guys keep naming women as a get back, but woman are the outliers in this situation. stay on topic please.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yeahhhh no. I've personally been violently raped. And I would've been raped/assaulted multiple other times, if I hadn't learned from my failure to defend/protect myself that first time. I know/have met COUNTLESS women, and even men who've been raped or sexually assaulted by men. I know significantly more who've been beaten by men. My first love beat tf out of me. In real life, in action, this shit is so insanely prevalent.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah and the women have higher percentage of committing theft, wasting police time, infractions of drunk and disorderly. Men have the highest rate of suicide at 90%. Yes women are the outliers for violent crimes that is true. My point is that there are bad and good people of both sexes.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Also, I've rescued friends from being assaulted/raped multiple times. There was a whole underground roofie ring in my hometown run only by men. It was actually busted by my male friend! They drugged and tried to rape him! But he clocked it instantly after feeling way too woozy from sipping on some wine and called an uber immediately, passed out in the uber, taken to hospital, etc. HE WAS a hero.

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Anonymous #2 1w

There's a large difference between looking at reddit and shit and genuinely having to live as 'prey' with your predator lurking around every corner

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Anonymous #2 1w

That’s crazy and I’m sorry for all those victims of that. Literally all I’m saying is there are bad people of both sexes

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Anonymous #3 1w

I'd personally feel much safer w someone who might rob me than someone who might murder or rape me. This isn't a 'YOU'RE WORSE!' Thing. We're expressing that we feel genuinely unsafe. Our lives and bodies are on the line around men. All we want is for y'all to recognize that, and work with us. We want us all to get along and be in harmony. But y'all gotta stop getting defensive and angry, and work with us instead.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Ofc there are!! I've known plenty of awful women! Terrible! 😭

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’m not defensive or angry I’m just saying from what you said sounded like you were saying only men do bad stuff and we all are evil

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Anonymous #3 1w

No, ofc all men aren't evil! I've met and know several good men. it's just such a big volume of guys loudly and openly being evil ruining stuff for y'all good and normal men/slaughtering your reputation, and we see 0 pushback from the good men out there against the bad men so we don't know what to think It gives that even the non-evil men support the actions and ideologies of the evil men

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Anonymous #2 1w

Well there is some pushback but the problem with that is typically those guys tend to be friends with similar guys so they won’t pushback and second depending on the threat assessment of the situation most men aren’t going to risk their life for someone they don’t know. Like I’m not getting my ass kicked by calling out a guy’s shitty behavior

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Anonymous #3 1w

So y'all are also scared of the bad noodle men? We need to all band together (good men and women) and rally against them!

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