Honestly I think it's pretty selfish to have kids if you can't afford them/give them the life they deserve. It's not fair to them. My mom was the product of that, and she was the first person in the family to break the teen parent cycle. She didn't deserve the stress of the environment she was born into.

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My mom had 4 kids before 24 and judges herself

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I mean 19 is kind of young but its grown

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