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Confessions 17h
him being really clingy is only pushing me away. #help
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Anonymous 17h

TELL HIM. PLEASE. I was this way with my ex GF, I had no idea that’s how she felt until she broke up with me and said it was because it felt like a chore talking to me, and I genuinely had no clue. I’m not saying it’s her complete fault but we both agreed the communication should’ve been there originally. TLDR: tell him 🙏🏻

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Anonymous 17h

communicate!!

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Anonymous 15h

Tell him!!! I know confrontation is hard.. but it’s not gonna get better if he doesn’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

how do i say smth without being mean😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

“hey, i really value our time together and you’re amazing but i do need balance. i want to be excited when i see you but that excitement can only build with space apart. im telling you this because i care about you and i don’t want there to be any bitterness between us” something like that, it’s not mean to advocate what you need dw

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

exactly, he won’t know until the communication happens, and if he responds poorly then he’s not the one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

okay that sounds perfect actually tysm

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

i will when i see him tn. it’s just such an uncomfortable conversation to have I don’t want to make him feel like he can’t talk to me at all. i appreciate the advice sm !!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Of course, it will honestly be a very un comfy convo, but if couples can get through those uncomfortable conversations then yall are on the right track! If yall can’t, well maybe it’s time to reevaluate

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