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Confessions 1d
stop feeling bad for acting single during a talking stage, until you’re officially a couple, you don’t have to stay loyal 😔
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Anonymous 1d

Loyal to the potential ghosting lurking in every long silence between texts

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Anonymous 23h

I would like to counter argue, it depends how long the talking stage has been and well if someone says they don’t wanna explore or is they do 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i’m so fucking sorry i dont know if you’re agreeing or not 😓😓😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Agreeing fully

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

i could see that, it’s good to explore your options just to see what you vibe with and some people are just ok with only putting energy towards one person, so i understand that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Well so how long is long enough? how many dates and how long can you be talking if before talking to other people becomes not okay? Cause you could talk for a year and not know the other person is talking to other people just cause you didn’t ask

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

this is entirely dependent on the person and the boundaries they have set/what they’re comfortable with. it’s important to be open from the get go, like saying ‘i’m into you, but i’m gonna keep exploring other possibilities too.’ if those boundaries aren’t made clear, that’s not really someone you may want to be in a relationship with

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