Anonymous #1 1d

Not a man. Not a man. NOT A MAN. Why are you types of women so hateful towards other women? Pickmes. I can absolutely ASSURE you I’m a biological WOMAN and I’m genuinely GENUINELY seeking advice in how to communicate with my partner. Like, how do I prove it? Because I GLADLY would and I want to.

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Anonymous #2 1d

This isn’t “the way he is” He went through depression (It’s over and he is fully better now) and to be blunt it’s time to recover HEALTH WISE from it. Like I said he isn’t fat to that point but he is NOT healthy. He consumes a lot of sodium and meats like pork almost daily.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Not a woman. Not a woman. Not a woman. But fr I thought you was a man cause what you posted literally sounds like a something a man would say. Anyway what would you want him to say to you if the roles were reversed. There was someone that needed that convo and I never said anything till we parted ways. Literally similar situation to yours, depression, better now… I’d like to know how is a guy supposed to approach this for future reference.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Btw if it was me, I’d want a straight up convo, with a warm light touch to it. Might sting but I’m sensitive and someone that loves you wants the best for you yk, they won’t let you hurt yourself just to not hurt your feelings

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Anonymous OP 1d

“the way he is” in the literal sense of “currently, at this moment”, not in terms of whatever his “natural state” is supposed to be. you already made it perfectly clear in your post itself that your motive is about what kinds of bodies you’re attracted to, little late to play the “I just want him to be healthy 🥺” card

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