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My coworker admits to me that she drives drunk (shes also 19) and i want to report her to the police but i have no evidence except a “she said”, what should i do?
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Anonymous 7w

confront her about it or bring it up with other people who care about her, don’t go straight to the cops. trying to get her locked up isn’t actually going to help her fix her reckless behavior or her relationship to alcohol, it’s just going to fuck up her future

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Anonymous 7w

Imagine someone telling you something in confidence and your first response is wanting to report her to the police. I get the danger she is doing and not saying there shouldn't be some sort of intervention, but you're a shitty person that no one should trust.

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Anonymous 7w

Thats what im saying, id rather be the asshole that “ruined her future” than do nothing and have someone be potentially killed by her dumb decisions

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Anonymous 7w

Wonderful idea thank you, who would you recommend going to for that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Dude im not her best friend, dont tell your coworkers at your job youve been at a month that you risk the lives of innocent people on the road its not that fucking hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Mind your business and don't be a shitty person.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

yeah, it’s apparent that you aren’t her friend, that was not my assumption. are you interested in actually reducing her likelihood of harming another person or do you just want to punish her?

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Anonymous 7w

obviously what she’s doing is dangerous and needs to be discouraged. there are methods of attempting to intervene that should be tried before going straight to law enforcement

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Ok??? Thats what im asking for??? Please give me other options then im open ears

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

read the comment you already replied to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Hey i get you wouldnt know this but i grew up with alcoholic parents that would drink and drive, i dont talk to them any more. My uncle also killed someone in a drunk driving accident. This is a very serious and personal topic for me and i take it seriously. Probably more seriously than most others. I have no personal vendetta towards this girl but i cannot understand why more people are not finding this to be abhorrent and selfish behavior.

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Anonymous 7w

a wellness check is still sending the cops to her house on suspicion of underage drinking

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Shitty ideas, if the people who “cared about her” really cared then they wouldve noticed. Like she told her new coworker a month after working here that she drinks and drives, you dont think they already know? And she was telling me about how one of her friends already got arrested for it and she STILL DOES IT

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

at no point have I taken this anything other than seriously or viewed it as anything other than abhorrent and selfish behavior. I am also intensely wary of the US criminal justice system for similarly serious personal reasons

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

does she not have parents? are you incapable of telling her the same anecdote you just told me about how serious this is? or are just not actually interested in ideas that take any effort on your part beyond calling the cops

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Anonymous 7w

right, and you know this because you’ve talked to her yourself. all I’m hearing is excuses for taking an unnecessarily punitive & very likely unproductive route

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Anonymous 7w

I cannot see their comments anymore so they either realized how stupid they are and deleted them or they blocked me, either way less dumb people for me to interact with yay!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Bruh, you can take the 11” dildo out of your ass now. I’d report you too if you told me some stupid shit like this at work.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Because you're a Karen just like the OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Yes because being against drunk driving makes us karens, youre a pathetic loser and i hope you eat shit

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

You can be against Drunk Driving and not be a Karen. I don't think anyone SUPPORTS drunk driving.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

If no one bites the bullet and plays this “karen role” of telling someone with the power to stop it then its gonna end with someone dying, so if im a karen so be it i really dont give a shit

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Anonymous 7w

Are yall gonna go out and be captain save a hoe and "protect " everyone from all the wrong doing?

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Anonymous 7w

I definitely do, and I know it's wrong. 🤷🏼‍♂️ go tell on me super hero.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I don’t tell on people like you, I just beat your face in. I’m no pacifist but I respect others who are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Everyone's tough on the internet.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

“Yeah im a shitty person and a disappointment that nobody likes” keep crying little cuck boy youll get whats coming to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Yes, you have been saved by that fact. I’m glad we can both acknowledge that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

Ok "tough guy."

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

She deserves to go to jail end of story. She is risking innocent lives for her own selfish gain. She could literally kill you driving drunk idk why ur defending this. My grandpa was killed by a drunk driver, they all deserve to go to jail.

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