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Confessions 4w
As a 19 year old I really want to date 30+ men but I worry about the stigma.
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Anonymous 4w

As someone who was the same way let the frontal lobe develop do NOT settle down with any of those men

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Anonymous 4w

Tbh that ā€œrelationshipā€ would be more fucking than dating. I donā€™t think youā€™d have anything in common with a guy whoā€™s 30+

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Anonymous 4w

Save some men for the rest of us damn

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Anonymous 4w

like 30+ separate individuals or a man 30+ in age

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Anonymous 4w

What does a 30yo have in common with a 19yo?

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Anonymous 4w

once youā€™re 30, youā€™re gonna see why thereā€™s so much stigma around that age gap but until then have fun girl. be safe and protected and donā€™t forget, theyā€™re 30+ and still single going for younger woman for a reason ā˜ŗļø.

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Anonymous 4w

Iā€™m 31 and I had great experiences with 19-21 year olds. I can share my experience

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Anonymous 4w

If you two love each other it will surpass how you feel about the stigma

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Anonymous 4w

Unpopular opinion. If itā€™s legal, youā€™re free to do it. No oneā€˜s opinion really matters. Some people might say that your brain is not developed yet clearly implying youā€™re stupid. Only you know if you are or arenā€™t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

šŸ«£šŸ«£

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Really šŸ˜­šŸ„ŗ

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Maybe 30+ men that are 30+ in age?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

30+ in age

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Pls do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I mean i like them and we could have great conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

100% in different places in life chatting is whatever fr to pass time but getting with them is a no go

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Till u realize its not the life u want anymore and all of a sudden everything starts connection

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

With peace a love, thereā€™d be no emotional love just sexual lust šŸ˜­ source: im 18f and ā€œdatedā€ a guy who was 35 and realized this was more lust than love šŸ˜­šŸ’” not in 2026 babes

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Which canā€™t happen between two people who are both 30? Please. Sheā€™s an adult, stop robbing her of her freedom.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Itā€™s not robbing her of her freedom itā€™s giving insight as ppl who have experienced similar situations at the end of the day she will do as she wishes none of us r stopping her itā€™s like reading the reviews on a product in the end ur still gonna do what u want

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Why tho I have a lot of interests

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Yeah, it's not just sex I genuinely want an relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

To clarify, it was just a joke. Good luck with this and treat it like any relationship you have with anyone. Be true to yourself and know youā€™re going to change a lot in the next few years.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Thank u šŸ™

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah and the review you gave was bullshit. You said itā€™s wrong because she would realize she wouldnā€™t want that life anymore after a while, which you donā€™t know. But even if they try and it doesnā€™t work out, so what? How is 19 and 30 not working out any different from 18 and 18 not working out? Theyā€™re both the same story, two adults had a relationship that didnā€™t work out. She would be taking the same risk if she dated a man the same age as her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

The reason being that they are fun, have less baggage, and are beautiful lol

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