Confessions on Sidechat | most men (read that again) have fucked up fantasies of women wanting them for money or women cheating on them to motivate themselves to do better. it’s so weird and that mindset bleeds into other interactions with women and they don’t realize it at all.

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Confessions 1d

most men (read that again) have fucked up fantasies of women wanting them for money or women cheating on them to motivate themselves to do better. it’s so weird and that mindset bleeds into other interactions with women and they don’t realize it at all.

Anonymous 1d

Calling them “fantasies” when that info usually comes entirely from unexaggerated firsthand experiences is top-shelf-gaslighting. By definition, true things can’t be fantasies. And you’re reading cause and effect backward; our interactions shape our mindsets. I was literally SO perfectly puppydoggishly naive my girl could have told me the earth was flat and I’d believe it. And I believed again and again until literally every relationship I’ve ever had, back to back to back forced me to accept th

Anonymous 1d

It’s more so a fear based off of societal observations than a fantasy.

Anonymous

#1 1d

Get your head out of your ass and go outside. “Based off of societal observation.” what a fucking loser

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Anonymous

#2 1d

how about you get the stick out of your ass instead.

Anonymous

#3 1d

e fact that the many women are exploitative and nearly all are unfaithful. Thats not bias; its the last thing in the world I wanted to believe. But srsly, how many times are we obligated to be naive and forget everything? & tbh I dont understand ur thesis that the purpose is to make us better. Cant speak for everyone, but it doesnt motivate me to be better. It motivates me to be worse (same with most guys I observed). I was better last time I trusted someone. Dumber sure, but otherwise better.