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I just got a new boyfriend. I was scrolling through his Instagram and I discovered that his ex girlfriend has the same name as me. My name is spelled abnormally and it’s even spelled the same. Genuinely what do I do with that?
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Anonymous 3w

Are you worried that during s*x he won’t be saying your name but his ex’s name?

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Anonymous 3w

Does the name thing really matter tho?Cuz I would brush it off tbh unless he makes it obvious he’s only with you because of your name

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Anonymous 3w

If you break up you should get a boyfriend w his exact name as a flex

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Anonymous 3w

Ask him if he has a *your name* fetish

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Then I have to admit i was looking through the Instagram

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Good thinking, but truthfully there isn’t anything wrong with looking through your mans socials from your phone. Thats literally what social media is for

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yeah but I went to his tagged and found her, that’s how I found it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Idk maybe? He did say my name once and now I’m just overthinking and wondering if he was thinking about her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Did he say “no, not *yourname* the other *yourname*.” Then you’d definitely know…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

No? He also never told me her name tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

No, I just wasn’t prepared for it. I’m a little weirded out bc we are both singers, into theatre and have the same name. But we look absolutely nothing alike and he left her so I lowkey just have to cope

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

That would be so difficult lol

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