Anonymous OP 1w

I’ve always been so jealous of girls’ friend groups and how they’re able to talk to each other about literally everything in their lives without judgment. But I guess it’s a double edged sword, because I wouldn’t want friends who just support me 100% no matter what and who never call me out on my bullshit or wonder about someone else’s perspective, which I see way too often in girls’ friend groups

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Anonymous OP 1w

Tbh I just hate being human this shit sucks

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Anonymous OP 1w

THE most relatable crashout oat

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’m assuming you meant to say “in no way shape or form”. If that were true, then my ex’s friends wouldn’t have convinced her to break up with me due to her exaggerated one sided stories and blatant lies. I’m not saying that all women friend groups are the same, but don’t act like there aren’t many that promote toxic support of each other where they act like their friends are always in the right and always telling the truth

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Anonymous OP 1w

Obviously if they’re only getting one side of the story then that’s what they’re going to believe. If your friends complain about their gf or bf are you thinking “oh well I wonder what the other person is thinking?” No. You side with your friends when it comes to that kind of things

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Anonymous OP 1w

And yes I did mean that I have autistic thumbs 🥲

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yes, I do wonder about the other persons perspective. What? This is exactly what I’m talking about. How do you people not realize that getting the full story is important?

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Anonymous #2 1w

If you truly wanted to side with your friends, you wouldn’t reinforce and encourage their lies and narcissism

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Anonymous OP 1w

See now I see your problem. “You people”. That’s crazy. I guarantee that if your buddies were like yeah bro my gf is being crazy, you wouldn’t think “oh man I wonder what she thinks happened”. That’s wack lol. You believe your friends. I fear I may understand the more precise issue here…

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Anonymous #2 1w

No, that’s exactly what I would think lmao. Everyone lies. Which is why I try my hardest not to. But hearing how you see and interact with the world, I don’t think I’d enjoy being a woman either. I’d rather surround myself with people who aren’t capable of being deep and caring than people who pretend to be that way but are actually just yes (wo)men

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Anonymous #2 1w

Also you saying this literally 100% contradicts your original comment lmao

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Anonymous OP 1w

ah so that’s why ur single got it

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Anonymous #2 1w

Why, because I understand that there’s more than one side to a story? You’re weird af

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Anonymous OP 1w

Bro please go to therapy

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Anonymous #3 1w

Literally tell me what I’m saying that’s wrong? It’s just common sense to understand that when someone tells you their side of the story with someone else involved, that the other person has their own perspective of the story as well. Y’all are so weird

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Anonymous OP 1w

I’m not going to do tell you that because that’s not why you need a therapist

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Anonymous #3 1w

Then why’d you respond in this comment thread

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Anonymous OP 1w

Cuz you need help

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Anonymous #3 1w

In what way?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Too much black and white thinking. A therapist can help you. It can also help you find the value of friendship you’re looking for. But you speak weird things about gender stereotypes so that might make it hard to make girl friends

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Anonymous #3 1w

Too much black and white thinking? I think you’re reading the wrong persons comments. I am anything but a black and white thinker. If I were a black and white thinker I’d believe my friends no matter what and believe the first side of any story I hear.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Nope! I read it right! Replace black and white with boy and girl. You also talk about sharing vulnerable experiences with friends. Yes friends help with that, but therapy even better

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Anonymous OP 1w

Reasons why you need therapy, evidence #1

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Anonymous OP 1w

Evidence #2, so you can break these stereotypes

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Anonymous OP 1w

Evidence #3 cuz (wo)men [calm down], “everyone lies”, and clearly you surround yourself with people who you don’t actually like. Why? Therapy can answer this! You don’t have to live so resentful and unsatisfied

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yes thank you. I did not have the energy to explain that to bro. No wonder he doesn’t get girls🥹

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Anonymous #3 1w

Everyone does lie though? You’re telling me you’ve never told a lie in your life? You’re telling me you’ve never misinterpreted a situation before? You’re telling me there was never a part of a story that you missed that someone else picked up on? And I said “(wo)men” because everyone knows what a yes man is, and the person I was replying to obviously insinuated that her girlfriends are all yes men. Or yes women, since they’re women. Pretty simple.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Sheesh someone is insecure and projective af huh

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Anonymous #3 1w

You could literally say this to everyone in the confessions thread. These types of posts are why this thread is a thing.

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Anonymous OP 1w

sheesh someone doesn’t get any puss bc he’s insecure and toxic

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Anonymous #2 1w

Lmao keep projecting ig?

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Anonymous OP 1w

Seek help

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Anonymous #3 1w

Why r yall so pressed 💀 sorry that I called you out on being fake af ig?

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Anonymous OP 1w

you seem like the type of person to blame everybody else for everything when in actuality it is the result of your own ignorance.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Speak for yourself lmao. you wouldn’t be this pressed if what I was saying wasn’t the truth. You simply lack empathy and the ability to be insightful, and so you’re taking that anger out on me because I understand how to evaluate a situation in its entirety rather than by face value through information given to me by “friends” who, if I were a person like you, would know that I’d just support them and their words no matter what

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Anonymous #3 1w

Literally what did I do to make yall so mad 💀 this shits hilarious

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Anonymous OP 1w

No this is what my pity looks like but this post is funny

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