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I fear… my girlfriend and I will be breaking up. It’s not crazy, we’re just not on the same life path anymore… but neither of us wants to rip the bandaid off and I don’t know how to fix it
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Anonymous 3w

If it’s what best for you. What loves you will always find you.

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Anonymous 3w

you need to do it today

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Anonymous 3w

Do it now I’m 3 years deep and I’ve known we’re in this spot for a while… it sucks

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Anonymous 3w

I’m 5 years deep. We’re both sick of eachother but neither of us want to do it

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Anonymous 3w

How aren’t you on the same path?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

She says she doesn’t know herself outside of us. And I’m a little focused on my career rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

You should break up today. 3 is long enough

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

I don’t if it’s what best for me of what’s best for her… idk it’s been so long

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Taking a break with no contact for a month will let you determine that. As dark as it sounds, a relationship becomes a routine. The person becomes part of your daily routine. Something that becomes a habit after a month of repetitive actions. So take a month of no contact and it’ll tell you if you miss the routine or the person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Yea so please break up that’s crazy work

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

There are so many fish in the sea, and you deserve so much more!!

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