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“Why do you want my number” “just to talk” Okay well we’re talking now babe, and all you’ve done so far is ask me how old I am, where I live, and whether I have a vagina. So like. If you want that number maybe earn it with some quality conversation.
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Anonymous 2w

Men ain’t lonely enough

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Anonymous 2w

You know what they want, those DMs aren’t worth responding to tbh

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Anonymous 2w

Yall gotta be more patient than this bro you cant ask for someone’s number this early. You gotta hit it off first 😭

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Anonymous 2w

YO TY! I felt like there was something wrong with me or maybe I was ace or something bc just being flash approached and asked out/asked for my number does absolutely nothing but irk me/stress me out!! I need some actual dialogue flow outside of you telling me you want me to be interested! Like who tf are you, I'm scared 😭

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Anonymous 2w

Literally what do guys expect to happen when doing this immediately I don’t get it

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Anonymous 2w

THISSSSSSSS

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Anonymous 2w

Earn it haha

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Anonymous 2w

Nah fr

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Anonymous 2w

I promise we’re not all like this

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Anonymous 2w

“Dance monkey , dance .” You “women “ are sickening . Btw , the male loneliness epidemic is a myth . Men aren’t “lonely “ . We are naturally minimalist and reclusive , outside of forming militant tribes . Enjoy your head meds and cats in 20 years .And don’t complain when all these good men you passed are dating your daughter or niece and don’t even acknowledge your existence.💀

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Anonymous 2w

can yall please define what yall want then ?

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Anonymous 2w

Gah damn give the man a chance

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Exactly. They’re either hoping you’re close enough to fuck or they want pics to beat off to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

You don’t wanna see what’d happen if they were more lonely, I’d say the issue is that they’re too lonely

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Anonymous replying to -> thatlight_hero 2w

I will once he puts some goddamn effort in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Honestly don’t even blame you, if he’s not atleast trying to strike up a convo and goes straight for the number, it’s clear what he wants

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

If they were any more lonely crimes would be committed I fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Yes!! We want good quality human conversation! Show you're capable of thought and depth! We want our brains and souls sparked!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

If I was a chick I’d want to be able to like hold a regular conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Banter with me. Make me laugh, tell me about yourself. Imagine we met irl; if you saw me in a coffee shop and asked for my number with no introduction other than “I’m this old and I have a penis,” would you really be surprised I turned you down?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

I doubt your average person immediately goes “HEY. HEY. NUMBER? NUMBER? SEX?” when they see someone hot

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Anonymous replying to -> thatlight_hero 2w

yeah giving him a chance would mean replying to his dm in the first place not handing over the number 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

They need to learn how to treat women like people

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

They already are being committed, sadly. 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

And who’s fault is that

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

Exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Cuz we don’t know what to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

then don’t say anything at all and keep it pushing tf.. you don’t know what to say so you automatically ask for the number hoping to continue the conversation? the one you.. can’t continue… already??? do we have our thinking caps on or nah

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

? If you want the girl = you want to continue the conversation so she doesn’t walk away = ask number What’s wrong? Sounds like you’re just not interested and wanted a way out, and is mad that the guy didn’t give you the way out. Make sure to think through next time. Why would the guy “keep it pushing” if he wants the girl? Sounds like you’re just projecting

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Nvm my bad I thought you meant the guy should just fuck off if he doesn’t know what to say, but looks like you’re describing their inability to carry the convo. Not me though yall stay safe don’t shoot the messenger that was just answering the question.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

yeah i mean in this situation, there was no time to even adopt initial attraction, at least for the girl (OP), the only reason the guy was interested was simply bc of her being a woman (aka wanting sex). so yeah, even if he’s interested, his inability to keep the convo going before asking for the number makes OP disinterested. so yeah, if someone (even those who are interested) can’t talk, they shouldn’t be asking for # and should keep it pushing 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

also going back to ur original comment, if you “don’t know what to say” why would you pursue them anyways? OP mentioned all they talked abt was age, location, and gender.. we ALL should be able to at least hold a convo past that 😔 hobbies, fav foods, places u wanna travel, things you’ve always wanted to try, work life, friends, movies, music, family, pets, like there is so much 😩🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> thatlight_hero 2w

She’s not gona let you hit , simp

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Tbh usually guys can say that but it’s that’s considered interviewy or boring which in their mind will just turn the girls off, which is why most of the times they’d rather say corny lines, be sexual rather than just normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Wait, so I have head meds and cats, but also I have a daughter? I thought you were going for a “childless cat lady” thing, but now I’m not sure. Your hypothetical future has some logical inconsistencies, I’m gonna need you to elaborate.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Single mother rates arent only increasing in the black community

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Okay so (in this scenario) I’m a single mother on head meds (that tracks, I do take Prozac) and I have multiple cats (sounds great) and you and your “militant tribes” are circling like vultures around my 20 year old daughter and niece. And I’m soooooooo sad because I didn’t give a chance to the guy on YikYak who talks like he just spent 2 years as Andrew Tate’s personal bootlicker. Did I get that right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

They want you to be a jester . They have trouble with their attention span from years of tik tok and vape pens

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 2w

i can understand that. in my experience, when guys ask me things to learn about me, it’s never felt interview-y, but i guess it depends on the girl. i feel like most of the time, those who speak sexually immediately only give “porn addict brain” or looking for a hookup/short term stuff, which a lot of women are extremely opposed to bc it’s objectifying.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

It’s always so easy to tell whose father was either absent or a cuck and no use in their life as an example of a strong male role model . They default to “Andrew Tate “ as if he isn’t the most unsophisticated overrated shill of the past 2 decades . Only other low iq people look up to him or think any of his ideas are original . You’ve proven to be one of those low iq people .

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Ah, not an Andrew Tate fan? Enlighten me then bud, what’s your messiah’s name? Whose alpha male dick are you sucking?

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

ur mad cuz she didn’t wanna give out her # to a dude who didn’t wanna give a conversation prior to im fucking cryingggggg😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Projection. You probably follow Cardi B or {insert brain rot thot } religiously and assume anyone with an opinion does the same . Just following “messiahs “ blindly . I know you’re not used to people who think critically .

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Mad ? Another projection . Sorry for triggering you

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

says “projection” then proceeds to project🫩 yall are too far gone. rip

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Enjoy the upvotes bud . I know you’re afraid to critically think so you don’t lose your fake internet currency . It’s giving , peeked in high school.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Idk bud I’m having a ball of a time over here trying to figure out how your brain works. I just made a post on YikYak about how guys who want to fuck without talking bore me, and it made you so mad you created a hypothetical scenario about me and my future cats. I think the only one “triggered” is you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Just showed this to my Dad btw and he rolled his eyes and said you’re a dumbass. With five kids, strong marriage, and a business owner, I’d say his opinion tracks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

“think critically” but shifts the argument to be, what, karma farming??? ooookay i wouldn’t be surprised if you didn’t graduate. lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah fake unbothered .

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

You have your people here camping to upvote you. Enjoy it . Eventually you have to come outside .

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Anonymous 2w

lmfaooo what i am enjoying is you progressively getting more mad over this stupidest shit like buddy can NOT be serious but yeah here you are being seemingly serious 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Right?! This is like so fun, I was gonna watch some tv to wake myself up but this guy is free entertainment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

5 kids . Tell him to get a dna test . Statistically one is not his . Especially a man who panders to women .

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

what statistics, source???? 🤔 or is the source your “critical thinking skills”🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

“ i was gonna watch tv instead of doing something productive because I’m a lard l0s3r” Thanks for proving my point

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

And just to be clear, what YOU’RE doing right now is very productive, yes?

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

I love how you change the topic instead of an actual rebuttal, a man likely a decade or more your senior and crazy successful doesn’t agree with you? Boo hoo, he must be getting cheated on. If you truly believe every big family is made up of bastard children, you’re dumber than I thought. Get some help. Maybe a therapist.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Also, the fuck did you spell “loser” like that for? What are you, a 13 year old on call of duty?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Tell me .Your dad has 0 DnA tests on any of his kids? Big yikes . Knowing the way you turned out and your mentality he might need to get that done pronto . Doesn’t matter if you’re a billionaire with 20 businesses if some other mans dna is inheriting it . 🫵🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Did you miss the part where I said HE said you’re a loser? Yeah, we’re all carbon copies of him sweetheart, nice try though☺️. Let’s get back to the original topic instead of bringing up fake hypotheticals

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

i’m still waiting on that source that says “if a man has 5 kids, statistics show that at least 1 is not his kid”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I don’t believe you and thats fine. You won’t reveal the truth . You tucked it back in with “carbon copy “ instead of “yes he has dna tested us “ . When men raise harlots who’s they pander to it is clear the type of men they are . I have enough experience to know without knowing him. So if you’re gonna conceal the truth I guess we’re done here .

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

I guess saying facts is simping

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

You don’t want statistics or knowledge because if you did you would just google it yourself .

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

do you ever pause to actually think or do u just type away and send? you’re actually a very concerning person and i feel sorry for people who know you in irl 😕

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Anonymous 2w

YOOOOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

I feel sorry for your mother . She should’ve swallowed you tbh .

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

nono, don’t back out. i have googled it and i’m not seeing your argument to be true, so, where are you finding your sources ?? if you have any that is

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

I think you don’t have any critical thinking skills or common sense. If you think every relationship is unfaithful you’ve had some bad experiences or follow some losers. I’d appreciate it if you wouldn’t badmouth my father thank you very much. Have some decency. Come, tell me what exact sentence says I’m a harlot? Go on, I’m waiting

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

they definitely have had bad experiences, all they’ve been doing is claiming projection but project themselves 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Like think of the craziness of the fact that he’s doing all this shit talking because OP didn’t want to give a rando clearly after sex her number 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Can we talk about the political and economic state of the world right now

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Anonymous replying to -> thatlight_hero 2w

Sure….?

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Anonymous 2w

Whyyyyy do you keep typing like that. “W3ird0” bro it’s 2026. You are not on 4chan. I know you can spell normally, you did it just fine until like 5 replies ago.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

“Don’t type like that . I want to be able to report you later “

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I love you, let’s build our own congress and take over US

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

You think you’ll get reported for “loser” and “weirdo”? And you think typing them with numbers like an eight grader will stop that from happening?

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Dude I’ve had people call me full on slurs on here and not get reported. I think you’re safe to call me a poo poo head without getting banned.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Anything can be construed as “bullying “ . The algorithm has a hard time picking up on certain words when they’re misspelled. Is this your first day on the internet????

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

still waiting for the source that supports your argument, really starting to believe you don’t have any 🤔 yk you can just say you don’t if all you did was make it up

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

The algorithm is not watching out for loser and weirdo. I don’t know how to explain this to you. They’re not even swear words.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Hey listen here pal

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Anonymous replying to -> thatlight_hero 2w

we’re listening and waiting buddy, go ahead 😩🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 2w

People just need to learn to treat people like people. Goes both ways unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

you still looking for that source?🤔 wow you’re dedicated

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 2w

Such obvious bait 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 2w

I don’t disagree

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