Anonymous #2 1d

yeah i just wish I didn’t physically experience attraction to anyone

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Anonymous #3 1d

i’m too r-worded and abrasive, i’ve been trying to fix it but i just 😢 can’t

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Anonymous OP 1d

everyone is capable of character development even super fucked up ppl or ppl who have done horrible things. it’s still possible

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Anonymous OP 1d

No more that you’ll never experience affection? Lowk worrying?

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Anonymous #3 1d

idk man, sure it’s possible for me to improve but that doesn’t mean i’m gonna. it’s very hard to love yourself out of a hole, eventually you need external validation and support and if i just don’t get that (which i haven’t) i don’t improve, and then i continue to go through life unloved

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Anonymous #2 1d

it’s not worrying to me, can’t miss what you’ve never had

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Anonymous OP 1d

Bro I’ve never had it either, but that doesn’t mean I’m never gonna experience affection tf?

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Anonymous #2 1d

we’re different people, i’m also not just talking about romantic affection i’m talking about all of it

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Anonymous OP 1d

Bro do you not have like friends? Also like… bro at the end of the day look at all the people who are married, genuinely how can you be worse than some of them

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Anonymous OP 1d

if it’s possible why assume it’s not possible? this is like a self fulfilling prophecy. unless ur like 60-80 u have ur whole life ahead of you to experience love in platonic and romantic forms it’s not as if it’s all over here.

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Anonymous #2 1d

And I say this as a person who *doesn’t have friends* but I experience affection even in passing??

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Anonymous #3 1d

possible doesn’t mean probable, you can have possible things with 0 chance of happening. from my current viewpoint of my life situation, it just seems that i’m not going to make it

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Anonymous #2 1d

what do you get

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Anonymous OP 1d

bc ur having a hard time changing? that’s not logical dude, i mean why not be optimistic even when ur life feels like shit there’s no harm in that when it keeps you going

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Anonymous #3 1d

hope is painful and acceptance is comfortable

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Anonymous OP 1d

giving up is comfortable

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Anonymous OP 1d

and change is painful 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #3 1d

ig man but i’ve had enough pain for a while

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Anonymous OP 1d

Good, kind conversations with people I’ve been in classes with, little side hugs from someone when I haven’t seen them in a while, even just like smiles?? Idk what your like standard definition of affection is but like I’d consider some of those affection

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Anonymous OP 1d

i mean that’s real but why would you stay stagnant or stay in a bad situation u don’t want, when literal psychopaths can redeem their lives

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Anonymous #3 1d

why would I keep trying so hard and failing so much and putting myself through so much pain when it is all futile

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Anonymous #2 1d

it’s been a while since i’ve had anything close, last time I hugged someone was october and even that she pulled away reallllllly quickly (she also initiated it i’m not a creep)

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Anonymous OP 1d

cause u don’t know it’s all futile duhh it rarely ever is it just feels like it at the same u just gotta ignore ur feelings in that aspect

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Anonymous OP 1d

dm me

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Anonymous OP 1d

Do you not hug your guy friends sometimes??

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Anonymous #2 1d

lol no, also can’t drop the Masculinity™️ act with them and be nice to each other

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Anonymous OP 1d

Also would highly recommend spending some time around an animal (I don’t have one but every time I’m at my brothers house with his golden it reminds me there’s so many diff kinds of affection it doesn’t matter if I’m not getting it in other ways rn7)

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Anonymous #2 1d

will try that

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