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I hate gender roles when it comes to paying for shit. The economy is too terrible rn for one person to pay for everything
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Anonymous 1d

he’ll make it work

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Anonymous 1d

Women want equality unless it comes to paying for half of the check.

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Anonymous 1d

Those gender roles never found me, bc as a woman, I ALWAYS end up paying for everything 😭 in friendships, in relationships, on dates, etc. They can be a fellow woman, a man, nonbinary, trans, etc, doesn't matter, I'm paying 😭💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

You’re certainly the exception then.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ig my most recent ex would pay a lil occasionally, to be fair. In 2.5 years, he paid at least 3 times, and went 50/50 at least 5 😭 I'm a legit, actual feminist. I believe in actual equity and the abolition of mostly all gender roles. Plus, I don't understand how anyone could be okay with being fully financially dependent on anyone else. I don't understand how someone could be okay with using someone else as a wallet. Like where's your guilt?? Your pride, even?? Ts is genuinely pathetic to me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

If I'm too broke to go on a date, that means I'm too broke to date. Which means it's time to keep my head down and focus on upping my bag. Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mommy situations are the only situations like that (one person expecting the other to always pay) I could understand.

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Anonymous 1d

Oh no, he was definitely a leech and it sucked (and he sucked, bro was a BUM) 😭 THAT wasn't equity. That was charity.

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