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i’m black and i have over 50+ matches on hinge. most are from white and asian men surprisingly like is it my style or something
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Anonymous 23h

Honestly ive noticed that we talk more about how men dont like us more than actual men talk about not liking us lmao. I think more ppl like black girls than originally thought tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

i don’t pay attention to the “Black women aren’t desirable thing” nomore. I know some people have preferences and stuff but TRUST were desirable to some people of every race, if you carry yourself properly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

i find it’s more that they have problems dating us than not being attracted to us. like lots will be attracted but don’t know how to talk to black women so they just don’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

yes i agree. another thing is them probably thinking we’re not going to be interested in them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Yes that is not really a thing in our culture as much as it used to be I feel like

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

they carrying yourself right part?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I feel like the "black women are not appealing" thing isnt very applicable for most men anymore. I think the issue is now that they fetishize culture/race instead which is not much better lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

i agree. the most important part is vetting them properly and actually making sure they like you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

I've been tricked too many times 🫩

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