
With my ex, I literally shoveled snow in her front driveway while I was delerious from a bad case of the flu. I had a 104 degree fever. I still dragged myself out of bed, drove over, shoveled her snow, then blew her a kiss through the window cause I didn’t want to get sick. When I got home I slept for 14 hours. Why? Because I loved her and wanted to make sure she was able to drive safely.
But the issue is that youre expecting consent 100% of the time you ask. Are you willing to do the same for her? Even if you had the worst day of your life, or were really sick, would you let her use your body for her pleasure? Just because your ex did something to you means you can do it to others?