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My boyfriend doesn’t think asking someone to do something they don’t want to do over and over until they say yes is coercion or manipulation. Should I break up with him?
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Anonymous 12h

New karma farm just dropped

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Anonymous 11h

Hi OP, he isn’t respecting your boundaries and as he keeps asking he thinks you will agree. You care when he doesn’t and he sees that as an advantage because he gets what he wants that doesn’t have your emotions in mind. If he cared, he would know about your choice.

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 12h

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

“My bf is abusive, upvote if i should break up with him??”

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 12h

Why are you so rude? If you don’t have anything helpful to say then don’t say anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

At no point have I been rude to you

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 11h

You’re accusing me of trying to get upvotes when I’m asking for advice. Like genuinely whats your problem?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

U could just say that’s not what u were doing and I woulda dropped it, I didn’t do anything to you actually tho

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 11h

I literally asked, “Should I break up with him?” How much clearer can I be?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

This isn’t good in the long run, you say no and yet he asks. In time it’ll lead to more bad things.

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