Confessions on Sidechat | just need to vent tbh: i live with my boyfriend. my brother has a key to our apartment, my boyfriends sister does not. yesterday she blew up at him because she thinks it’s unfair but tbh I don’t think it’s unfair. that’s his boundary.

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Confessions 1d

just need to vent tbh: i live with my boyfriend. my brother has a key to our apartment, my boyfriends sister does not. yesterday she blew up at him because she thinks it’s unfair but tbh I don’t think it’s unfair. that’s his boundary.

Anonymous 1d

I don’t understand why people get mad over boundaries. She HAD a key, she overstepped several serious boundaries and put everyone in an a potentially unsafe situation. Like obviously, those boundaries are deserved 😭 and it sounds like he didn’t want her to have a key in the first place, it was just to make her feel better or something.

Anonymous 1d

why doesn't the sister have keys but the brother? makes no sense

Anonymous

#1 1d

I’ve been physically hurt/taken advantage of by bad men in the past and my brother who is VERY protective of me was hesitant about me moving in with my boyfriend, so to establish trust when I moved in my boyfriend gave my brother a key and told him he could come over whenever he wants if he’s ever worried I’m not safe. His sister used to have a key but got it taken away when she stormed in unannounced one day, started screaming calling our relationship a scam and saying I’m a gold digger

Anonymous

OP 1d

Are you a gold digger

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Ohhh ok this makes sense

Anonymous

#2 1d

No, not at all. Yes my boyfriend has money but I’d love him if he didn’t have a damn penny to his name

Anonymous

#3 1d

Thank you

Anonymous

OP 1d

Ofc

Anonymous

#4 1d

I’m ngl before he started dating me they were a lot closer so he probably wanted her to have a key at some point in the past. But yeah Hurd right she overstepped and lost privilege to a key