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I’m 19 and falling for someone who’s 30 and I feel terrible about it, how do I get over this? This feels wrong, but he’s an amazing person
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Anonymous 4w

he only sounds like an amazing person because he is most likely love bombing you !! do not fall for this trap babes you’re better than that

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Anonymous 4w

I’m in my early 30s and have no idea what I’d have in common with a 19 year old

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Anonymous 4w

I think it’s more of a red flag that he’d be interested in a teen

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

It has not crossed the barrier of romance at all, I will make that very clear! 🙅 He has been very respectful thus far and nothing has crossed the barrier of platonic to romantic on either sides! I appreciate the concern tho!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

And that’s like the one thing that’s made this whole situation confusing. Like I opened up to my family about this whole thing and they’ve actually been encouraging it since we’re both legal adults and the whole thing is just really messing with my head. And I know it’d be more on him if something happened, but I still feel like a terrible person for feeling this way, if it makes sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Like we like the same music and that’s really it, and he’s a cool person and I don’t want to feel this way (hence why I’m coming here to try to figure out how to get over this whole thing) but I had talked to my family about it (like I said in a previous comment on this thread if you want a more detailed explanation) and they’ve been pushing me to try to make something work with this guy and I really don’t think it’s a good idea

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean It’s just a crush right? Personally I think the maturity difference is too great or at least different stages in life knowing men he’s actually probably less mature than you are

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