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cutting him off bc he left me on delivered for a 23 hours or an entire day on THREE different occasions. i don’t need a man who doesn’t prioritize me, if i work in a hospital and still can text you, you have NO. excuse. i’m done settling for less
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Anonymous 5w

my ex is in the air force and used to text me for as long as he could before the plane took off and then immediately when it landed 🥹 So yes girl no excuses for a lack of response, if they wanted to they’d make time!!

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Anonymous 5w

So basically he needs to text you every single day practically every waking moment? You can prioritize someone without having them text you every single day!!! Your standards are in hell lol… like wow only three occasions and he’s done? Truly, there’s no room for error in dating modern women… you’re a perfect example lol

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Anonymous 5w

All the brain dead birds in the comment “my man hasn’t texted me in a week, but that’s normal he knows where home is!”🤢

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Anonymous 5w

Yes, queen shit

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Anonymous 5w

All the people in the comments being like “this is completely normal and I love when my man doesn’t respond fast” pack it up yalls standards for men are in hell. Those men don’t want you they want to make a fool of you

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Anonymous 5w

You can totally have your standards, but a day a couple times is nothing. People can not talk, it’s okay if he doesn’t talk to you for a day. I’m interested in a guy and I haven’t talked to him since New Year’s Eve (he texted first and we talked for a bit), and I am okay with that

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Anonymous 5w

I found a way to have grok do my replies while I’m away. I have it set to text back in a 1-20 min range. Those dumb bitches still have no clue!

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Anonymous 5w

You ain’t shit, I’ll say it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

and ur standards are in hell

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

don’t give a fuck? go find a woman with low standards then

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

u ain’t shit tf

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Yes but to have to wait TWENTY THREE hours is crazy is especially long when its someone ur excited to text too he could find 5 mins within 23 hours to text back

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

“Only three occasions” three times too many. If my man was leaving me on read or delivered for longer than a couple hours I would’ve disappeared by now

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

let’s talk about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5w

Okay… so if the women is excited to talk to someone, that automatically means that the man should be excited to talk to? If I was dating someone like OP, I would definitely want my peace. Also, OP defines low standards of women based on how often they text? I mean that doesn’t even make any sense. From my POV, women like OP are needy and seeking attention. That’s low.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 5w

See that’s the issue. Women have no remorse, no mercy, whatever. It’s pathetic. You think just because you’re a woman you can have what you want? No forgiveness at all by people like you. For the guy that you left because of that, I’m glad for his sake that you did. He deserves better. You expect everything but then when a guy doesn’t do something one time all ya’ll crash out

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Hell yeah!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 5w

A week is not the same as a day, to be clear. Even I think a week is questionable. But a day here and there is not that big of a deal. It’s ridiculous how needy and attention seeking modern women are. It’s one of 10,200 reasons I’m staying out of the dating area

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

He would’ve texted you back if you were anything special 🥱

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I haven’t left anyone for not messaging me cause when someone ACTUALLY likes you they respond on time. I am now married and he continues to respond on time because we are all glued to our phones and he’s not a boy that thinks my attraction will grow the longer he holds me on a long ass leash

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

lmfao a man can have the baddest bitch and still cheat? what you tryna say like you don’t know me, ho

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 5w

so that’s still applying effort even if you’re faking your replies you’re still finding a way to reply LOLLL

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I just don’t understand not being able to talk to your partner at least a check in once a day. I love talking to people I love but that’s just me ig

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Not really. I’m just not unreasonable

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