I do have some amount of empathy for people who struggle with hypervigilant tendencies when we live in a culture where child abuse is so rampant, but I lowkey cannot believe I just got pedojacketed by a stranger for calling myself a catboy 😭
like at a certain point you have to stop and ask yourself “is it possible that my habit of misinterpreting fairly innocuous shit as a glaring red flag is causing me to be unfairly hurtful towards others?”