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Confessions 22h
Is there any guys out there that don’t want kids? I’m not looking to date on here I’m just curious because it seems like every guy I date wants children and I don’t want to compromise on it so I’m wondering if there’s any hope for me lol
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Anonymous 22h

if there are any i haven’t met them :(

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Anonymous 22h

I mean I’d want kids eventually, just not anytime soon

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Anonymous 21h

Honestly, if you’re not left leaning it’s almost impossible. My boyfriend doesn’t want any bc we are both pessimistic freaks who think the world is gonna end and also we would really prefer to continue to have time to play video games LMAOOO

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Anonymous 22h

Not to be in your business but how old are you? I didn’t want kids when I was younger but as I got older I became more paternal. Also, a lot of men want kids because of the idea of passing on their legacy. Last name, dna etc. I don’t think it’s something a lot of ppl want genuinely

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 22h

19 but I’m not changing my mind because 1 I don’t like them and 2 even if If I did i unfortunately have a health issue that if it passed down it would ruin their life and I’m not ever gonna have kids cause of it so it’s not an option either way for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

I get u

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Yeah same unfortunately :/ and if I have they usually were lying about it and told me later and then said it’s okay we can compromise for 1 or 2 like no???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

omg yeah what’s up with that!! it’s so annoying to think you’re on the same page and then find out they actually do want kids. it’s starting to feel like they’re just hoping once you’re invested you’re more likely to compromise. idk why they don’t just get with women who want kids 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

No literally! Like kids deserve to have a loving home and be planned! Not be something to compromise on there are plenty of girls who want children and I’m not one of them so I don’t understand why they can’t find someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> lamboperry 22h

so you want kids 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

exactlyyy like what kind of family are they even hoping to make if they have to convince a woman to have them??

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Maybe in like 10 years

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Anonymous replying to -> lamboperry 22h

that doesn’t change the fact that you still want them lol

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Anonymous 22h

Where did I give her advice? I didn’t tell her to have kids or that she would change her mind. I inquired about her age and gave my 2 cents lol. I then answered the question. Thanks for adding nothing to the convo tho 😛

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

True lol

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