Anonymous #1 20h

And then get his numberrrrre🤭

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Anonymous #1 20h

I'm a dude and the cashier was a girl 🧍‍♂️

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Anonymous OP 20h

Ohhhhh say “excuse me miss I wanted to let you know that you have a beautiful smile and I hope you have a lovely day” and watch how she responds to see if u should ask for her number

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Anonymous #1 20h

I was gonna say I think she's beautiful before I left but I didn't 🫩

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Anonymous beestboy 20h

Eh, I disagree. If I see an attractive woman out in public then it only makes sense to try. It's not like I'd be harassing her or anything, just a simple compliment and question and see where it goes from there

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Anonymous OP 20h

In public is not the same as at work gang u good? Especially in a customer service role where they have to be nice to you cuz it’s their job, u can easily misread that as interest when it’s just their job. Even if you aren’t being creepy imagine how many men try talking to them daily and they just have to smile through all that. Have some sense brody

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Anonymous beestboy 19h

So like... a grocery store is a place that's open to the public... Sure she's at work but she literally interacts with hundreds of people, it doesn't hurt to try. It's also not difficult to tell if a girl isn't in to you, even if her job is "to be nice." I'd probably just get right to the point and ask if she's in a relationship before asking anything else. Besides, if not at work then when would I ever see this girl? Probably never, so I might as well try.

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Anonymous OP 19h

Horrible logic, but hey more power to you do whatever u want gang

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Anonymous #3 19h

even if the comment itself doesn’t make her uncomfortable, the fact of the matter is that when you feel the need to tell her, that indicates to her that for some reason you think you’re a special enough person that your opinion should be worth something to her. as if she should be flattered that you think she’s good-looking. and unwarranted self-importance is a turn-off

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Anonymous beestboy 19h

i’m actually with beestboy on this one i fear… it’s especially weird to do at her place of work bc there’s the added feeling of if she rejects you, now you know where she works and you could make yourself a regular customer and potentially harass her. not saying you would do this, but it’s something she’s going to consider. in a truly public place, the other person should be free to respond without fear of repercussion, and that feeling isn’t present when it’s someone’s job.

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Anonymous #4 19h

Typical men brody 🤷🏻 can’t even imagine perspective of a woman’s outside of their own. “Um, if she’s pretty , im gonna talk to her duhhh, who cares about how she feels and what she got going on”

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Anonymous #4 18h

"Potentially" being the keyword here. Any normal guy would take the rejection and move on. Yall are assuming the possible worst outcome which is funny. Again, given that she interacts with hundreds of people everyday, and given than beestboy said that a lot of guys probably hit on her everyday, do you really think she'd still be employed at the grocery store if she A. had a fear that guys she rejects would show up to her job and harass her or B. has already been harassed by a guy she's rejected?

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Anonymous #4 18h

Like I said, if not at work then where? The majority of Americans are employed. It's just the circumstances of society. Having a friendly interaction and showing respectful interest in a girl at her place of employment, I don't believe anyway, is inappropriate. Would you say the same thing if the sexes were reversed?

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Anonymous beestboy 18h

You're making a generalization for all women. "Yes, every single woman ever does not want to be approached by a man while she's at work." But my logic is flawed of course 😂

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Anonymous OP 18h

Yes I would say the same thing . Being flirted with when I’m at my job is annoying as fuck. And im a dude, i cant imagine if it was magnified by 100. U flirt with people on the street, at a common place of interest like a cafe or concert. At the bar. U urself didn’t talk to this shawty cuz u were shy and that’s a good thing. Ts is not valid gang

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Anonymous beestboy 18h

Yeah bro for sure, then why don't you address what #1 said about asking them to help bring my groceries to the car? Go reply to them and tell them why that's wrong.😂

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Anonymous OP 18h

I can’t cuz im blocked by them LMAOOO

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Anonymous beestboy 18h

Like I said, you're making a generalization about ALL women which is just something you can't do. You're also bringing your personal experience into it: "I would find it annoying if I got hit on at work." which doesn't apply to everyone lmao

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Anonymous #3 18h

Wow... you should seek therapy or something if your thoughts about a compliment are this distorted... like wow. Somehow a compliment is turned into a man stroking his ego? I'm speechless.

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Anonymous beestboy 18h

Well shit

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Anonymous OP 18h

you’re being willfully ignorant. any person with a modicum of intelligence (or any female friends) knows that women will often assume the worst outcome in these situations because that is how you stay safe. any chivalrous man would want to take that into account and do what they can to make sure a woman they’re interested in is never put in a situation where they feel unable to leave the place where they are being hit on or feel unable to give an honest answer.

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Anonymous #4 17h

Riiiight... I should ask all of my female friends (I have many) their thoughts on this. "Would you feel threatened and in danger of harassment if you worked as a cashier and a guy said you're beautiful and respectfully expressed interest in you?" By your logic, there should be a near unanimous consensus that they would have these negative feelings which I don't see being the case. You're feeding an agenda that says that women should be afraid of men and the world in general. 👎

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Anonymous #4 17h

I do believe it is wise to be cautious in this world as a woman. I think there are limits to what things should be perceived as threatening and dangerous and things that should be perceived as harmless.

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Anonymous OP 14h

at least three different people trying to explain this same shit to you simultaneously and you’re really gonna keep playing willfully obtuse just because you can’t deal with the prospect of not treating the grocery store like cruising grounds 😭 cowardly And entitled is a crazy combination, I’m out

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Anonymous #3 10h

Next time there’s a post on here asking why guys don’t approach women anymore I want you to reference this comment right here

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