Anonymous OP 21h

That’s interesting. Seems OP’s situation happens way more often in comparison tho. I rarely ever hear this perspective but hear the other one a lot

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Anonymous #1 21h

u dont hear this perspective bc skinny shaming isnt seen as a thing and if you try to speak about ur experience you’re immediately invalidated so we just learned to shut up lmao.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Trust me I’ve definitely been skinny shamed. But even if i experienced shame from people I simultaneously would get a lot of praise & still experienced pretty privilege. I’ve also been bigger. Being skinny will always be easier & more ideal. & it’s hurtful but not as bad as being fat shamed. People treat fat people like they’re not human.

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Anonymous #1 21h

okay and trust me, i was treated better when i was fat. this is what i mean by invalidating. my experience is different from yours and its not okay to tell me otherwise. i miss being fat.

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Anonymous #1 21h

like did you just comment to really tell me “oh well fat people have it worse” leave me alone brother idky. im talking about MY LIFE. when i was almost 200 lbs people never treated me this poorly even though i was still made fun of for being fat, but its nowhere near comparable to being called a crackhead and being told i must be a drug addict because i lost too much weight. that shit affects my actual image in society and not just whether or not people think im “attractive”

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Anonymous OP 21h

That’s understandable but your situation is not common. & how often are people calling you those things? I’m assuming family? Overall being fat shamed will always be worse. We’re literally in an Ozempic epidemic rn, people are quite literally doing anything to be as skinny as possible. That body type has been & always will be seen as attractive even if a few people tell you otherwise. The same thing can’t be said about a fat body 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 21h

& if being skinny is that bad then gain the weight back? Also I’m just sharing my experience also lmao. As a skinny person who’s heard it all I just don’t have as much empathy for other skinny people because our bodies are literally the standard. A few hurtful comments from people here & there doesn’t change that. My family makes fun of me for being skinny, but they’re all overweight. Am I really going to let overweight people make me feel bad when they actively want to be skinnier too?

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Anonymous #1 21h

we are also in a bbl epidemic where women are dying to get extra fat on their bodies. quit being a dick

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Anonymous #1 21h

yeah no youre so fucking weird.

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Anonymous #1 21h

if being fat is that bad then starve yourself??v im not reading all your weird bs. i dont care that u hate ur body. ur not allowed to invalidate my experience weirdo.

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Anonymous OP 21h

A lot of people are getting their BBL’s removed. Skinny is in rn BBL’s were more of a thing of the past. Also a BBL doesn’t equate being fat.

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