beestboy on Sidechat | I really wanna be friends with this woman in my class but she’s married with a kid. I don’t think it’s wise because 1) I think she’s hot and 2) I don’t know if my intentions are pure. She’s really smart and cool and easy to talk to tho so maybe her insta?

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beestboy

I really wanna be friends with this woman in my class but she’s married with a kid. I don’t think it’s wise because 1) I think she’s hot and 2) I don’t know if my intentions are pure. She’s really smart and cool and easy to talk to tho so maybe her insta?

Anonymous 23h

yeah, notice the order in which you mentioned things about her: 1) married, 2) hot, Then 3) smart cool & easy to talk to. at a subconscious level you’re prioritizing her desirability. that’s not a foundation for a healthy platonic friendship

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#1 23h

Yea I feel that. That makes sense

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beestboy 22h

shoutout for the critical self-awareness / willingness to interrogate your own motivations though, genuinely