Anonymous #1 1w

i like to say i’m a lady :D

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Anonymous #1 1w

I mean i would just say to get used to saying “woman” the same way a man will just say hes a “man” as women i feel like we say “girl” a lot like men will say “thats my girl” whereas women say “thats my man”

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Anonymous OP 1w

true. i just need to grow up fr

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Anonymous #4 1w

to me it just feels so like…scientific? or more like an object?? idk how to explain why but that’s just personally how i feel if it’s used in certain ways

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Anonymous #5 1w

No

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Anonymous #4 1w

Cuz female just means anything that bears eggs to reproduce which includes like fish and frogs, so ur grouping us with that plus, its also an adjective so grammatically its supposed to be followed by a noun like “female lawyer” and besides all that i personally think that any guy that uses it is just a incel that hates women and uses the scientific word cuz of his lack of interactions w them, no normal educated guy that has good relationships w women would be going around calling us that

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Anonymous #4 1w

After we said we dont like it and gave valid reasons as to why

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Anonymous #4 1w

def dehumanizing, bc we use the word “females” and “males” for studying other, lesser species so often that calling a woman “a female” implies a difference of species and a lack of respect for them as a human being

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Anonymous #2 1w

thank yall for putting what i was trying to say into actual words that make sense 🙏

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Anonymous #4 1w

Because they always want a reason to be upset

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Anonymous #9 1w

Literally they just want a reason to be upset

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Anonymous #10 1w

Honestly bro they just want to be called things like “ queen , woman , princess, etc” while being absolutely shitty people to then blame us

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Anonymous #10 1w

Woman or women, use female if you want tho it’s not that deep

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Anonymous #9 1w

Mannn look Imma say whatever I want lowkey😹😹 I didn’t know the words “male” and “female” became so harmful😂😂 Whiever think it’s bad could kma

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Oh no someone who works in healthcare!! 😱 God you’re annoying

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Anonymous #10 1w

Man it’s so dumb

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Anonymous #10 1w

Say “women”

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Anonymous OP 1w

Ok you got to call me big daddy supreme then

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Anonymous OP 1w

No cause not all “women” are women imma continue to sale male and female

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Anonymous #10 1w

I mean if u want to the whole reason for my post was that u sound stupid doing so, no normal man that has good relationships with women would go around calling us something that we have explicitly said we do not like, u do u but u sound like an incel man that does not interact w women much and hate women, i do not care what some anonymous rando calls women across the country

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Anonymous #9 1w

Like i mean okay

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Anonymous OP 1w

Obviously you care enough to send that long azz paragraph. And for your info I have a good relationship with every female in my life. 😹

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Anonymous OP 1w

What do you know about men , I have great respect for women (you like that huh🫦?) but I definitely say female . It’s just what it is

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Anonymous #10 1w

😂😂😂 thank you

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Anonymous #8 1w

OP not gone respond to the facts😭

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Anonymous #8 1w

Well no not exactly

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Anonymous #15 1w

Yes, yes exactly

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Anonymous #9 1w

Typically from my personal experience when a dude says female they refer to men as men and women as females/girls.

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Anonymous #11 1w

Yea you’re insufferable

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Anonymous #10 1w

Do u say male when u talk about a man?

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Anonymous #10 1w

Op doesn’t have to respond to every dumb comment when they already explained. Why are u going so hard to try to prove someone advocating for women wrong?

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Anonymous #15 1w

U can advocate for women without being wrong

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Anonymous #8 1w

Wrong about what?

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Anonymous #15 1w

Stop saying “Women” All women are not real women😂

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Anonymous #10 1w

Do u refer men as males?

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Anonymous #15 1w

Yeah we don’t care, call us males or men or a man it doesn’t matter to us

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Anonymous #8 1w

How about u google why it’s wrong to call women females.

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Anonymous #15 1w

No, it’s not wrong, yall just made it a problem

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Anonymous #11 1w

Wtf is your problem lol😭

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Anonymous #15 1w

Yep or I say “Guy” like let be honest It don’t even feel right saying “I was talking to this man the other day”

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Anonymous #15 1w

It doesn’t matter to us

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Anonymous #8 1w

https://berkeleyhighjacket.com/2021/opinion/casual-use-of-female-is-more-harmful-than-it-seems (here read this)

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Anonymous #15 1w

I’m not reading ts cause it’s probably just as dumb as you females are that’s angry over a word

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Anonymous #10 1w

https://mars.gmu.edu/server/api/core/bitstreams/202421b8-1025-485c-bb07-8d9c89ceb52c/content( or read this)

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Anonymous #10 1w

Ok just say u can’t read

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Anonymous #17 1w

They deleted their comment 💔

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Anonymous #15 1w

Link doesn’t work

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Anonymous #8 1w

Screenshot it and copy the link

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Anonymous #15 1w

See how dumb you sound. If I could all read these dumb ass replies and responses what makes you think I can’t read.

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Anonymous #10 1w

I don’t think u actually can’t read lol😭. Obviously u can read smart one. I’m just provoking u

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Anonymous #15 1w

I did it doesn’t work

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Anonymous #15 1w

Just took me to this website and showed me a bee that says “shucks”

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Anonymous #10 1w

U are not open to challenge ur own perspective and that is very dangerous to do

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Anonymous #8 1w

Don’t waste your time it’s a bullshit article written probably written by a female just like them😹😹

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Anonymous #10 1w

Im still on the side of this argument it’s stupid because by definition a woman is a female but I just wanted to see what the article said

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Anonymous #10 1w

This whole things is to not casually call women females. Do u call men males? The fact u are arguing calling women females is weird

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Anonymous #15 1w

Listen here I call folks whatever I want to call them. Female is the term I want to use and imma use it as much as I want.

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Anonymous #10 1w

Are u also on the side of saying the n-word in a song while being a non-black person? Not that these actually relate I’m just curious. Just like how back in day the n-word with the er at the end was to describe a black person. Solely going by definition isnt good.

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Anonymous #10 1w

I mean you can use it, but it doesn’t make you immune to us questioning why. Why do you want to use it?

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Anonymous #10 1w

Guess what bro words have meaning and they are important to others. Just be respectful that’s it

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Anonymous #11 1w

GUYS THIS WAS RESPONDING TO SOMEONE ELSE 😭

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Anonymous #14 1w

Because I can

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Anonymous #15 1w

See now you off track

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Anonymous #15 1w

“When used in this way it is disrespectful” sure, in those examples or examples like that, but calling a woman a female in general is not disrespectful and saying it strips the of their humanity is a reach straight out of hell, like I said it’s making a bigger problem out of something small

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Anonymous #15 1w

Im black so in my eyes if their singing a song why would i get livid and out of my body? That just says a lot about yall maturity

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Anonymous #10 1w

I also clearly stated those two doesn’t relate it was a simple question b/c I’m curious

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Anonymous #10 1w

Do u call someone by their legal name or the name they told u they want to be called?

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Anonymous #8 1w

Do u call men males?

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Anonymous #15 1w

As a black male I don’t give af what you say in your songs it’s your first amendment right to practice free speech. Just don’t use that shi towards me in a offensive way💯

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Anonymous #10 1w

That’s not “why,” that’s “how”

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Anonymous #8 1w

No that says a lot about ur mindset not my maturity. I personally think no one should say it b/c of the hateful history. I’m also black and I don’t say the word at all even in songs

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Anonymous #10 1w

Im literally just saying that for your sake u sound stupid

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Anonymous #9 1w

Ok

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Anonymous #10 1w

Interesting 🤔 this says all I need to know about u as a person

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Anonymous #8 1w

That’s not my point I said do u call men males. Like in ur everyday language. Like actually think about it not to win an argument

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Anonymous #15 1w

So basically we all black humans arguing over a post that the white race probably created to divide us. Yall show we fall into their traps so easily. We gotta break free😹😹😹

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Anonymous #10 1w

Do u ever be like “oh this male he was blah blah blah”?

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Anonymous #13 1w

Female is fine obviously on a birth certificate the original post used it in a sentence it just sounds off to use this scientific term when it just groups us in the same group as like animals a frog or a fish can be “females” whereas “woman” is human and when you DO use female ur supposed to follow it with a noun such as “female doctor” so ur grammar is literally wrong

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They were telling them not to reproduce 💔

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Anonymous #10 1w

😭chat ur the one dividing us. Ur the one came on here trying to prove a point and win an argument rather than question what u already do

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Anonymous #15 1w

What exactly does that say about my mindset? Hmm? That word has 2 very different meanings, again like I said, you feeling some type of way over that is just you being overly sensitive for what? Their singing a lyric in a. Song not blatantly trying to put someone down

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Anonymous #15 1w

And we’re getting off topic, we are on the female thing, like I said earlier, sure in that context where they say females in bad light may seem bad but generally saying a woman is a female is not wrong

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Anonymous #10 1w

U dont know what OP gon do

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Anonymous #8 1w

😭words has meaning to them that specific word has horrible history attached to it to make us less than. The way it’s used today is reclaiming that power. I don’t mind if black people say it as much as a non-black person b/c they understand the struggle with the word(at least should lol). I hate when non-black ppl use the word in a song b/c they don’t understand this specific struggle and if they do they wouldn’t be using the word at all.

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Anonymous #15 1w

Wait are you meaning white artist who use the word in a song or white people singing along to a song

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Anonymous #8 1w

I got off topic b/c I was curious lol. Just be respectful to how a woman wants to be referred to as that’s it u don’t have to like it

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Anonymous #8 1w

Singing along

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Anonymous #8 1w

Btw I apologize for my horrible grammar I don’t think about grammar when texting

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Anonymous OP 1w

shut yo lame ass up nigga

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Anonymous #8 1w

if you start listening you’ll start getting it dw

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Anonymous #20 1w

Tf are u talkin bout

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Anonymous #8 1w

Ah yes, the terf “definition” response

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Anonymous #20 1w

Ok

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Anonymous #8 1w

ohhh you’re still haunting this comment section okay. 1) chill the fuck out 2) why do you want to continue doing what you’re doing

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Anonymous #20 1w

Least obvious Ragebait

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Anonymous #6 1w

that’s like a million times worse

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Anonymous #11 1w

i hate that when a comment gets deleted the replies to it don’t because now it just looks like you’re clowning the original person 😭😭

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Anonymous #8 1w

Right!!!! At least it ain’t bitch lol these females are pick me’s

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Anonymous #25 1w

😭u obviously don’t know what a pick me mean

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Anonymous #23 1w

I know bro, IM A HEALTH SCIENCE MAJOR, like, guys i work in the ER PLEASE 😭😭

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Anonymous #25 1w

A pick me is someone who acts disingenuously for approval from a man

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Anonymous #15 1w

You’re actually wrong and correct at the same time. A pick me refers to ANYONE attempting to be selected by ANY group of people . So while yes you’re right , they could also be right

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Anonymous #9 1w

By that definition they are still most likely wrong

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Anonymous #15 1w

Nawl it’s just a broad ass statement , so narrowing down to specific person to a specific group would just be a very long process which would still make no difference.

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Anonymous #9 1w

😭they are still wrong to use it in the way they used it in

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Anonymous #9 1w

Like whose approval are ppl chasing? U get what I mean it makes no sense to call ppl in these comments pick meds

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Anonymous #15 1w

Pick me’s

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Anonymous #15 1w

Yeah definitely I get that , which is why I said it’s a broad statement . To them they have a perfect group of people in their mind that people are trying to get approval from , while it may be unbeknownst to us , it still. Is to them

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Anonymous #9 1w

😭just weird lol

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Anonymous #15 1w

I can see why you feel that way 100%

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Anonymous #15 1w

You literally just proved my point lmao. Your not in the right here just showing how emotional you are

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Anonymous #25 1w

Bro what? Ok in this context what is the pick me behavior?

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Anonymous #4 1w

Yes it’s dehumanizing. A dog is a female, an organism is a female, a human is a woman/girl.

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Anonymous #27 1w

Or a female 😂. Y’all find a reason to get mad at anything. If they was referring to an animal they would’ve said that animal , what you’re feeling is a sense of inferiority which isn’t everyone else’s problem, I love you and respect all woman don’t get me wrong.

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Anonymous #9 1w

Creep who can’t use proper grammar.

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Anonymous #22 1w

yeaa the joke def went over your head lil bro

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Anonymous #21 1w

It is, by definition, both an adjective and noun

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Anonymous OP 1w

I'm a male. You're a female. We're both animals. All people are creatures and exist in male and female like everything else. Get over yourself.

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Anonymous #9 1w

The post i made originally was that people who say “females” in my opinion just sound like they dont get much interactions with women and they hate women and i was just pointing that out like for your own sake u sound better just saying “women” especially since regardless of if u agree women have spoken about how they dont like it anyways

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Anonymous #9 1w

I didnt make this post with a problem to begin with it only became a problem when people like you had a problem w it

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Anonymous #29 1w

It is and my post was just saying that people who use it sound like losers

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