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Confessions 21h
I’m sorry but if you’re under 20 dating someone 10+ years older than you you’re getting groomed no context can justify it
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Anonymous 21h

agreed, i did that and i didn’t realize how bad it was until i got older

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Anonymous 21h

I struggle to find anyone younger than six years than me attractive and this is a new development as it used to be four) and anyone older than four years of me to be unattractive. Problem is… I’m really not finding anyone attractive. They’re physically attractive and emotionally stunted. Or they have a personality of a gem and I can’t find them physically attractive.

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Anonymous 17h

Well true but they have their shit straight and no drama and they know what they want.

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Anonymous 14h

My roommate used to bring her 30 year old plus bf into the room and it was BEYOND uncomfortable. It was so weird.

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Anonymous 18h

he’s hot though so it’s okay

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Anonymous 16h

Tell that to my Xbox

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Anonymous 20h

Maybe worry about you

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Anonymous 18h

If someone is an ADULT dating an adult, it’s none of anyone’s bussines. Let people live and learn. Their choice.

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Anonymous 21h

Women are going to hate this

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

what

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

Nope don’t do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

let me have my fun while i’m still young and pretty 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

No, girl lock in before it’s too late. I promise you’re gonna wanna find something real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

dw this is just a phase, i’ll lock in once im like 20

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

You’ll regret it and wish you didn’t spend this time with him when you can do sm better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

it’s only a summer fling trusttt i’m not doing this forever 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I agree as someone who is 30. I think ive stumbled across 3-4 my age worth keeping. Not to be the ass but men my age are cooked and if he’s going after you there a likely a good reason he is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

men my age are just as worse LOL i have no options so im just going for who im most attracted to

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

you don’t have to get with anyone rn tho, and you’ll still be beautiful as you age

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

The lowest im willing to go is 24. And the highest is 34 atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

aww yeah ur right im lonely though 😪

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

honestly i’d go up to 50 🙁

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

I’m telling you girlie. This will only make you feel more lonely.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

i knoww he’s lowkey evil too, but i plan on dropping him before i leave for college anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

Awwww helllll no. Thats how you get sex trafficked. 🏃🏻‍♀️💨

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

omggg yeah not trying to have that happen 😭 i just want to find oneee that’s good like there has to be at LEAST one

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

The problem is the good ones won’t go for people your age

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Op over here speaking facts.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

💔💔 yeahh honestly that’s true.. guess i’m gonna have to wait until im like 30 so i can date 40+ 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

No girlie pop. Date your age. Just with discernment. There are some great guys out there that are within 5 years. You got dis

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

You’ll find someone great don’t settle or rush it ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

You already admitted he’s evil. Drop that bitch. Drop his @ so we can avoid him and go find someone’s who’s worth of you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

okay so 24 is my limit? 🌝

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 18h

If that’s the rule we gotta make. 😂😂 just find a good one and don’t steal my potential hubby, kay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

WELLL he’s not thattt bad just like evil as in very noncommittal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

thanks queen 🙁

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

lol okay deal!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

wait i’m so slow 23 not 24 😭 aw mannn

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17h

lol. I am fining most are single for a reason. (Obviously there are exceptions)

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

Hmu 🐞

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