Anonymous #4 4w

Hey not cool I am a male and I’m lonely but I don’t do this I’m just fat trying to cut weight

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Anonymous #5 4w

It’s not all guys but it’s usually a guy that says shit like that. You’re not doing it but if you don’t see that problem then that’s also an issue.

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they weren’t saying that at all, can you comprehend?

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there’s is a lot of SA and creeps saying shit most being guys. Girls can be creeps but it’s mostly guys, there’s a reason why they have women’s self defense tasers and pepper sprays. It’s ok to hit on a girl in a respectful way but let me ask you this, I’m sure you have a sister or some woman in your life that you care about. Would you want that girl to be hit up in her DMs asking about cumming or something sexual the second they start to talk?

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Anonymous #6 4w

LMAO DO IT

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teach me the method broski

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Anonymous #7 4w

the temptation is there but also since I’m older than a lot of people on this app I would feel way too creepy doing the “playing along” part. might not be a bad idea for somebody else to go vigilante mode with this tactic though

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what you can do is stay conscious of the societal power imbalance, and keep an eye out for ways that other guys around you might casually exploit that dynamic so you can intervene

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Anonymous #6 4w

Send some red room shit 💀

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Actually most pepper sprays and tasers literally say for women self defense. Guns do not have that. 90% of girls carry at least one them on their keychains. Also carrying a gun on sru is prohibited.

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Anonymous #6 4w

If you’re not in college then it’s weird that you’re on this app at all

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I and other men carry to defend myself from other MEN like do you not get it…

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Anonymous #27 4w

older people can be in college

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Anonymous #4 4w

No it’s not, it’s people that are actually lonely and depressed, it doesn’t have anything to do with women but you guys made it all about you like usual

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Anonymous #36 4w

Wtf

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Anonymous #36 4w

just be like “ya wanna see?” then ask him for money. or just jumpscare him.

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Anonymous #29 4w

Be honest : when you’re walking around your town, and you look at all the guys… do you genuinely think “most” 60%+? Of them are sending raunchy horny DMs to strangers online!!!?! Omg.

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Anonymous #7 4w

You’d be better off spending that time investing into stocks instead of playing cat and mouse with idiots online

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Anonymous #19 4w

I said most as just a good amount of guys, not all. There are PLENTY of men who don’t do that, omg.

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Anonymous #29 4w

Most means … most. You’re backpedaling. If I said “most women are gold diggers” and then said “well not ALL, I just mean ALOT” those are all different terms. Going forward just remember most means over 51%.

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Anonymous #27 4w

People can graduate

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Anonymous inphochewated 4w

so why would u still be using an app made for college students then

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Anonymous #19 4w

They can mean “A LOT” of men while still meaning most, and they didn’t make the clarification so you’re talking about backpedaling when you just can’t read. Most doesn’t mean all, so someone saying “most women are gold diggers” then saying “not ALL” literally isn’t backpedaling hello? Next time just try to remember backpedaling refers to reversing one’s opinion.

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Fuckin Texan 🙄

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Men getting offended when we say shit like this is so pathetic. Like if you know youre not the type to do this shit, then why are YOU offended? Seems sus tbh

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Anonymous #31 4w

not all but most

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Anonymous #31 4w

Not all, but more than enough to need change.

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Anonymous #5 4w

You sexy king

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Anonymous #40 4w

Cause people can’t let go of the nostalgia of college. Or they’re just weird

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Anonymous #4 4w

Ain’t the male loneliness thing exaggerated? Like as in the male and female loneliness are near the same according to studies? Or am i misremembering

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Anonymous #56 4w

Male loneliness is completely different

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Anonymous #2 4w

Yeah, no, just a few. Idk how they feel comfortable doing that.

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Anonymous #6 4w

Um… there’s a strength imbalance and a societal power imbalance. The former leans towards men, the latter towards women in its social aspect and maybe towards men in the $ aspect.

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Anonymous #56 4w

You’re correct, actually. Both are near the same with the male loneliness rate being just slightly higher. Should just be called the loneliness epidemic tbh.

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Anonymous #4 4w

NOBODY wants that to happen to a woman in their life. I have a buddy whose now-ex gf was assaulted by 3 dudes last year. She had to have reconstructive surgery and can no longer have kids after that, not to mention her mental state. But don’t pull that “you’ll never understand” card. YOU will never understand what it’s like to live with OCD, how every time you put any effort into something it takes at minimum 3x as long for you as it would someone else. What it’s like to never be good enough.

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Anonymous #4 4w

Get off your high horse. Real & decent men hate those guys who SA and creeps who send unprovoked sexual DMs just as much as you do. They’re a-holes and give the rest of us a bad name. Yes, there needs to be some better way to prevent tragedies like what I mentioned from happening & a better system to punish those responsible. I’m aware of the statistics and how sickeningly small the conviction rates are. Life’s not fair; that sucks & can make you pissed off af at the world & everyone in it.

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Anonymous #4 4w

So I get that. But neither of us is helping any of that. And no, it’s NOT okay, not at all. But don’t pretend women are the only ones with problems; men have problems too, just different ones. Btw sorry for being a total jerk. Classes got me stressed af & pissed off right now.

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Anonymous #58 4w

Be a jerk who cares

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Anonymous #5 4w

Clearly I do care. That’s why I balled my eyes out when I heard what happened to my buddy’s ex-girl - who I’ve never even met btw. It’s why I got my mother to get her CC with me and intend to do the same for my sister. Also fuck Wilmington PD. Those dicks don’t gaf about grape cases, substantial evidence or not.

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Anonymous #2 4w

The power of anonymity

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Anonymous #6 4w

can I steal that idea because im college age so if I play along it’s less creepy to the majority i feel and also i have lots of gore to share

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Anonymous #58 4w

Not that crazy dude

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Anonymous #6 4w

Fucked up bro

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Anonymous #64 4w

Maybe bc you’re on a dating profile 💔 holy complaining

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Anonymous #63 4w

have you ever considered that sometimes people are on apps for things that aren’t hookups?

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Anonymous #64 4w

That doesnt mean you should publicly cry about someone wanting to go out with you.

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Anonymous #63 4w

literally what the hell are you on

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Anonymous #64 4w

Idk ask the OP bro, this is a non issue

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Anonymous #41 4w

When someone says most, they mean more than 51%. They are the ones who said “not all”. Most never meant all. I never said that it did mean all. Most means Most. If you honestly believe that 6/10 dudes are sending gross horny DM, you live in a messed up world.

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Anonymous #41 4w

Most is the majority dude.

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Anonymous #6 4w

This is actually so fucking funny

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Anonymous #2 4w

Some men are rude and arrogant

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Anonymous #34 4w

They are saying they’ll send gore to people younger than them after helping them bust… that’s weird to do as someone who is older than college students. It’s lowk weird in general

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Anonymous #63 4w

But who is the one privately messaging sexual shit on unrelated posts every single time?

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Anonymous #48 4w

The post was not unrelated, it was a “I’m bored” post that is USUALLY horny on this Fuckass horny app. The guy is replying to it saying he is horny too

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Anonymous #63 4w

I’m not talking about this post. I’m talking about the fact that we’re messaged by guys trying to sexualise ANYTHING. I once posted about a death anniversary and had SIX stupid fucks try to sext.

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Anonymous #48 4w

“Oh no, women are blowing up my phone and want me to fuck them” cmon bro “my steak is TOO juicy, my lobster TOO buttery”

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Anonymous #63 4w

So you think it’s okay for your ilk to sexualise death? I hope you’re made to swallow all your teeth.

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Anonymous #6 4w

I did that last year and now I’m being harassed (;

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Anonymous #5 4w

Life isn’t fair huh fat guy trying to cut weight. I’m a broke college girl that gets cat called when I show my neck. Maybe I should cut too! Wake up.

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Anonymous #7 4w

It’s their hunting instincts.

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Anonymous #25 4w

She loudly put it on the internet. Now the internet is politely putting u down. Good.

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Anonymous #63 4w

Greed is a sickness. It should not be normalized. Good job 63, why are you putting him down 48?

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Anonymous #48 4w

Why would you threaten him to swallow his teeth. You sound upset and power hungry.

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Anonymous #48 4w

I’ve been raped. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

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Anonymous #63 4w

Two wrongs don’t make a right (;

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Anonymous #48 4w

So change.

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Anonymous #48 4w

I’d agree with this scale. You’re smart!

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Anonymous #45 4w

This is why it’s normalized.

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Anonymous #69 4w

When someone points it out, ignorant people try to bring others down. Two wrongs never made rights.

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Anonymous #64 4w

Sounds like you’re trying to pivot from the main issue. The pig.

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Anonymous #62 4w

Everyone craves something.

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Anonymous #67 4w

Wait that’s a good idea, I’m using that next time!

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Anonymous #33 4w

Me too, and he cornered me.

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Anonymous #7 4w

Learn to write before you try to read.

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Anonymous #37 4w

The devil is six. Sick. Sex. Greed. Pig at the bottom.

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Anonymous #63 4w

A very small majority. Not enough.

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Anonymous #19 4w

I agree.

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Anonymous #29 4w

Yup, it’s not thaaaaat deep. It’s a surface level problem.

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Anonymous #69 4w

liar

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Anonymous #19 4w

I do because I’ve been raped by many men and they were my bullies when I was a child. Now I’ve grown to see that they must’ve been bullied too and now they need to grow up before they continue hurting everyone around them and become a sad fat guy on his couch dming happy young girls who are vulnerable and easy targets. Get it?

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Anonymous #58 4w

You’re a good one. Thank you for being here.

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Anonymous #5 4w

Two wrongs will never make rights.

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Anonymous #50 4w

What’s your argument?

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Anonymous #69 4w

Two wrongs don’t make a right, so what’s wrong with what I’m saying. Enlighten me! :)

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Anonymous #67 4w

WAIT GUYS IM NUMBER 67. LIKE SIX SEEVEEEENNN

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Anonymous #6 4w

What gore

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Anonymous #43 4w

I mean, not really. If I were to say something that generalized most people of a gender, sexuality, race, culture, and then said “why are you getting offended by it if you aren’t like those OTHER people?” that’s still pretty shitty

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Anonymous #77 4w

Check ur bias, you didn’t comprehend the message ur replying to. Men getting offended by women saying “can we not normalize random men asking us to make them cum” is weird as fuck bc if you don’t do shit like that then why would you take it personally? Someone who thinks it’s weird for men to do that doesn’t get offended when a woman talks about wanting it to stop, they’d want it to stop too. What’s pretty shitty about asking men to stop saying gross shit online? You’re clearly fucking weird 2

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Anonymous #19 4w

And now you’re just tryna deflect from what i said? I’m telling you that you don’t know what backpedaling means and that u used it wrong and u did. Right back to spitting definitions u already wrote js cuz yk ur wrong, and the 11 upvotes shows how dumb some of yall are thinking u ate when u don’t even read properly. Also yes i do live in horribly cruel awful world because of men.

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Anonymous #63 4w

Once again men failing to actually comprehend what they read. Everyone knows what most means, what I said is that the word “most” and the phrase “a lot of, not all” do not contradict each other, and so the person who wrote both was not backpedaling. Get it now??

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Anonymous #19 4w

And get this, 49% of men who theoretically don’t do this includes “PLENTY” of men just like op wrote in their original comment

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Anonymous #41 4w

Why are you so hostile? They said men are getting offended by this. I dont like being lumped in with guys who do ugly, disgusting crap like that. I think it’s toxic to associate a negative behavior with an entire group of people and act as if they’re all to blame for said behavior.

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Anonymous #77 4w

Nobody lumped you in with anyone in this thread, you did it yourself in your brain. it’s just yall once again not being able to handle us talking about men doing gross shit because yall still don’t care enough to get it. It’s not hostility it’s honesty, and it’s true you’re obviously weird that ur still talking about how it’s offensive for us to even mention, because once again nobody made generalized claims about you at all and you just responded to something you made up in your head.

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Anonymous #41 4w

Okay. Fair enough. Have a good day

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Anonymous #6 4w

As if that wouldn’t make me immediately cum harder than I ever have. What’s your collection like?

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Anonymous #7 4w

Fellas if she says it’s for sale tell em to get a real job and get their life together, and if they send gore send worse gore.

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Anonymous #79 4w

Or, make it so this kind of message doesn’t even come up as a thought for anyone.

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Anonymous #48 4w

Yeah just end horniness forever, that won’t have any unintended devastating consequences

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Anonymous #79 4w

Congrats on coming up with a completely different statement I never made! I’m talking about not harassing strangers with sexual bullshit when it’s not the topic.

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Anonymous #48 4w

Shooters shoot, he didn’t do anything wrong at all

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Anonymous #79 4w

Bullshit. It was inappropriate and we know damn well his dumbass would cyberflash people on here if he could. You’re part of the problem, too, dipshit.

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Anonymous #79 4w

Shorty blocked me cause she’s mad lmao. Cry

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Anonymous #79 4w

Shorty blocked u cuz ur a pred babe

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Anonymous #41 4w

Asking a random on a app to hook up or trade nudes is not being a pred at all, like so far from it you seem like a fuckin dumbass

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Anonymous #38 4w

I think it goes deeper than that because I had a guy that I had to tell multiple times a day that I did not want unsolicited pictures, hindsight should’ve blocked him, that’s on me but his final straw was me saying stop. Someone strokes their ego and makes them think their special for it being big or something and they believe every woman in the world should see it, I honestly have no clue

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Anonymous #79 4w

I’m not talking about nobody but u, u look like a fucking dumbass tryna bring ur friends in when ur the one im calling a pred, and i called u it over ur messages in this thread not over the 100s of dms u send women begging for sex cuz ur a thirsty virgin incel, and ur literally textbook pred u made it clear

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Anonymous #41 4w

BRING MY FRIENDS!!! Lmaoooooo ur going fucking schizo who do u think I am

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Anonymous #79 4w

Js take a breath n try to really comprehend what I’m saying I promise u can do ot

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Anonymous #41 4w

I DONT EVEN DM ANYONE ON THIS FUCKASS APP!!! WHAT A LOOOOOOOOOOSER

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Anonymous #79 4w

Obviously I have no idea what u do in ur free time, I said that rage baitingly because you said it’s not predatory to ask for sex on here after I called you a pred when that’s not why I called u one and also u didnt even do that as far as anyone can see on this thread, so ur response was easily spun into rage bait of you “admitting” you do that shi as. And I said bringing ur friends in because ur not the one who asking people to make u cum and I wasn’t talking about the person who did that I was

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Anonymous #41 4w

talking about you

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Anonymous #41 4w

Well did ya get what you wanted out of it? I stayed on point and you brought up some other shit? Lol

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Anonymous #79 4w

Yea u raged n that’s what I wanted, also got confirmation that my thinkings too high level for some of yall I gotta tone it down so yall cna keep up

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Anonymous #41 4w

Yeah u fulla shit my nigga

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Anonymous #41 4w

You ever heard the phrase “Jokes on you I was pretending to be retorded “ lmao

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Anonymous #79 4w

Retorded lol

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Anonymous #41 4w

Yeah so I epicwy wagebaited this guy who likes pussy. Basicawwy a viwwain

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Anonymous #79 4w

Js stop while ur not ahead shits getting embarrassinnngggg

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Anonymous #41 4w

Further showing how much that shi worked on you

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Anonymous #41 4w

Heh. Widewawwy Wagebaited dis guy

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Anonymous #41 4w

Replying means u witewawwy wagebaited? Guess I wagebaited u pwetty hawd

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Anonymous #24 4w

They don’t allow my favorite word on here.

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Anonymous #79 4w

We all know ur white no matter how many times u say the n word btw

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Anonymous #41 4w

That’s fine my nigga. Nothing wrong with that.

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Anonymous #63 4w

He didn’t say he’s horny too he said wanna help me cum, and only creeps like you think everyone is constantly tryna be sexual and honestly it’s just an excuse for yall to be nasty whenever u want, she said she’s at work ain’t nobody (except men) posting on here while at work saying their bored cuz they secretly wanna make a rando cum

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Anonymous #70 4w

Who’s a liar? Me or him.

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Anonymous #82 4w

You can’t say that! We have to automatically assume any horny DM is from a man or else it shatters our worldview!

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Anonymous #31 4w

You don’t even know if this DM came from a man or not

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Anonymous #19 4w

Yes we do lmfoaoaoaoa

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Anonymous #82 4w

From personal experience responding(don’t judge me) like a good 70% of those DM’s are lesbian women and the rest are almost always frat bros

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Anonymous #82 4w

There is absolutely no way in hell it’s disproportionately lesbians yall js making shit up lmfaoaoao

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Anonymous #19 4w

Youre so dumb its painfullll js blabbing ur mouth

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Anonymous #41 4w

I am a person who’s responded to a bunch of these and to my dismay they’re always lesbians

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Anonymous #41 4w

Seriously shitting on their keyboard and thinking anyone is gonna buy that nonsense 😂

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Anonymous #48 4w

Nah #19 is accurate. Not about it being all lesbians but they’re accurate about women having an anti-male worldview and wanting to keep it through confirmation bias

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Anonymous #3 4w

Hahaha I wish I could have a wonderful view of men I promise you that, you just don’t experience women’s reality and you don’t care to ever actually understand what we’re talking about

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Anonymous #41 4w

And talking about the nasty things of some men doesn’t mean people view all of them negatively, you just wanna be annoying and interrupt what we’re actually tryna talk about because you take everything personally when and then want to deny the problem exists cuz u n ur friends aren’t like that

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Anonymous #41 4w

Just not true. You guys always act oppressed, like a decent man is a rarity. Maybe stop going to frathouses or other places with bad men if you expect good ones. Its like a guy pulling up to a stripclub expecting a faithful woman

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Anonymous #3 4w

See even your response is proof. A frat house is apparently known for having bad, gross men by ur own words. When do men ever talk about how nasty women treated them at sororities? Men do oppress women and they’ve been doing it since the dawn of time

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Anonymous #41 4w

And once again all you have to say is a “faithful” woman, I wish the problems we face was fucking cheating, we face rape, sexual assault, regular assault, sexual degradation

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Anonymous #3 4w

You js don’t understand social issues im sure you think nobody in America is oppressed

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Anonymous #41 4w

Sororities also dont throw. There are no “sorority parties”. Women choose to gather around frathouses for some reason, probably because they can get in for free and guys need to know someone. But the historical argument is bad because you’re blaming modern men for the actions of old men

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Anonymous #41 4w

If it was up to me these frathouses would start getting suspended quicker, but its not. Women cant walk into one and get shocked when the result is expected. Its like leaving expensive jewelry on a car seat. That shits getting stolen lol right or wrong

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Anonymous #3 4w

What are you even talking about, this isn’t a YouTube debate my one sentence mentioning the past wasn’t my historical argument. i don’t really give af about frats or sororities that mf brought it up, but either way it’s true men do not talk about their experiences being sexualized by sorority girls bc it rarely happens, regardless of parties. And anyway we can just look at the statistics straight from the fbi on violent crime

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Anonymous #41 4w

And these stats are straight from last years men

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Anonymous #41 4w

Im not denying the stats, but “more men commit sexual crimes than women” is very different from “all men are predators”. This entire community on yikyak seems to believe all men are predators

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Anonymous #3 4w

No they don’t yall always think that every single time a conversation like this comes up, because once again you take it personally, the world would be a lot different (definitely more safe for us) if all of us really did think yall were all predators so what are you even crying about

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Anonymous #41 4w

Actually the world would not function if women willingly segregated themselves from all men

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Anonymous #41 4w

Think about the economy if you do this

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Anonymous #41 4w

You’re projecting your experiences with certain men onto all men. Since women claim to be about fairness, how is that fair?

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