
From your posts itâs clear that youâre emotionally avoidant of the women you talk to, you want âfriendshipâ where you get sex from them without having to worry about the emotions of an actual relationship. Youâve also made a post saying you wouldnât be friends with âchopped shiâ in response to someone saying men are only friends with women they find attractive, only proving their point. The list goes on but u can figure that on your own
I asked u what objectifying women means to you and youâre using examples of my posts as if I donât know what I post. I want an objective definition from you, cuz in neither of those posts was I objectifying women. Hooking up with fwbs is not wrong and objectifying , and only being friends with people I consider attractive is not objectifying either. That post I explicitly said itâs something everyone does, male or female.
Thereâs nothing wrong with hooking up with fwb but itâs the fact youâre making the conscious decision to continue things despite her making it clear sheâs developing feelings but thatâs both on you and her. Objectifying women is dumbing women down to just their sex/gender stripping them from humanity, which you are doing by ignoring emotions and only thinking about hooking up. Would you treat a guy friend the way you would a woman? Also the looks thing is insanely objectifying
The looks thing is not objectifying because we all consider our friends attractive. I donât know any person who would say their friends are ugly, feel free to prove me wrong right now. In regard to hooking up with this girl, her feelings arenât being ignored and sheâs not being stripped down to sex, we have a regular friendship outside of sexual conquest as well. We hang out, talk, and cook together.
iâm sorry but 100% you do objectify women to objectify someone is to treat them as an object - like one would do if they continued to use someone to their own benefit when they know that the person is struggling with their own feelings, like you did in that text. Or not even texting back because you âdonât feel like itâ so youâre only interacting with her when it benefits YOU or you feel like it. Like how you interact with an OBJECT. Youâre a piece of shit and like the other men women talk abt