Anonymous beestboy 1d

It’s not like a man who’s getting pissy and defensive tho, it’s my fiancés parents

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

I think they tryna call u broke brody, what do yall individually do for a living

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

I’m a lawyer, he’s in finance

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Anonymous OP 1d

Damn yall both sound pretty stable. They hatin. Would u do a prenup

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

As a lawyer, I don’t believe in prenups and would almost never advise my clients to sign one

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Anonymous OP 1d

Why

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

Life circumstances can change drastically, so if you get a divorce 30 years after singing a prenup you’re locked into clauses that may not apply to your current life or circumstances at all. You’re putting yourself in a position to where you’re unable to fight for your current rights and needs at that point in your life. Also most states have laws that protect people’s right to property and money in a marriage anyways making a prenup kinda useless

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Anonymous #2 1d

That’s what I was gonna say yea

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Anonymous OP 22h

give an example of said clauses that could be taking away your rights?

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Anonymous #4 17h

Let’s say you sign a prenup before you’re married that you don’t get any money regardless of if you have children or not after a divorce. Then all of a sudden 30 years later you’re getting a divorce and you have 3 kids and one of them has cancer. You can’t advocate for yourself in court to get your ex husband to pay to support his kids because of a bullshit contract you signed before you knew how your life would go

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Anonymous OP 16h

well if that's the agreement they had then it is what it is you knew you weren't going to get any money in the event of a divorce. if you don't want a prenup that's all fine but don't be hating on people who want prenups to protect their interests. you might not consider yourself a gold digger but they're out there, all over the place.

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Anonymous OP 16h

and that's not taking away your rights in any way that's just an agreement they made

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Anonymous #4 16h

It takes away your right to advocate for yourself.

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Anonymous OP 16h

no it doesn't, you can still advocate yourself all you want! nobody is stopping you. it just takes away your ability to take more than is reasonable, and if you agreed to no money in the event of a divorce, then any money would be unreasonable. honor your word. if it doesn't work for you don't sign it. there are no life circumstances that change the fact that if you agreed to something than it's fair. and you don't have a "right" to take someone's money if you agreed not to.

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Anonymous OP 16h

advocating for yourself does not equal getting money that you agreed not to expect. you can ask for it, that's advocating. you can't expect it if that's the arrangement you settled on.

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Anonymous #4 16h

You’re clearly just not understanding what I’m saying. The entire point is you shouldn’t legally settle on things decades before they happen. You keep ignoring that. So I’m ending this conversation.

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Anonymous OP 15h

you're just saying it's taking away your rights which isn't true if you weren't a gold digger you wouldn't give a fuck about a prenup lmao, especially as a lawyer, you can support yourself own kids, only reason you'd be against a prenup is the missed opportunity to make a fortune.

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Anonymous #4 15h

You’re just not understanding what I’m saying at all, but that’s okay. You don’t have to understand it.

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