Anonymous #1 4w

If I ever find her I’ll do whatever I can to be sure she’s happy healthy and loved

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Anonymous #2 4w

How come?!

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Anonymous OP 4w

Personally i feel like it would be great to be loved and cared for, but that would mean 0 financial independence so if the relationship ended i would be left with nothing and probably would have to take care of the kids too

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Anonymous OP 4w

Love and hate the idea of being home constantly love the idea of a couple kids running around but hate the fact i’m going to have like no personal space EVER Love the fact i wouldn’t have to work and my husband could pay all the bills while i make dinner hate the fact my days would feel so unmotivating and repetitive i could go on and on fr like id love that life but don’t know if i could trust myself with it

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Anonymous #2 4w

Omg i feel this

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Anonymous #1 4w

If you’re my wife that’s it you’re my wife! Divorce isn’t a thing with me. We better figure that shit out bc we promised it to each other! I won’t cheat I won’t lie I won’t yell I won’t physically abuse either. To me that shits unacceptable. My “sperm donor” did all of that and I saw how bad that is for the family

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Anonymous #1 4w

THAT PART !!!! Along with that No financial independence sometimes leads into controlling relationships and in the case of divorce nothing to my name would be AWFUL or feel like women would have no freedom or stability

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Anonymous OP 4w

Seeing stuff like the first hand is an experience on its own i like the idea of a marriage like that and a good relation among my husband and kids but also want my own life too

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Anonymous #2 4w

Well whatever you decide to do your man should support that! If you want to work go work!

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Anonymous #2 4w

You should have your own life! Being a wife and mom shouldn’t mean you have no life

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Anonymous OP 4w

Most men in trad relationships feel the women should solely focus on the child and the home not about them having a social life i also feel like they usually don’t support their wives going back to work bc then “who would take care of the kids and house” i love the idea of a 50/50 relationship tho like both ppl cook and clean both work both take care of the kids both take time for themselves THATS what i want

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Anonymous #2 4w

For me that’s preferable as well! I never said anything about a trad wife! Now if my wife wants to stay at home I support her. If she wants to work I support her either way she has my back and my suooort

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Anonymous #2 4w

Message me if you’d like?!

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