He’s making up excuses and doesn’t actually care (saying this as a guy)

24

Don’t listen to these bums on the comments. Ur bf is a bum and so are these dudes.

18

Don’t listen to some of the boys in the comments. I’m ngl I’m quite large and it can be awkward sometimes bc the last thing I want to do is hurt my GF but you can always change positions, stop for a while, try using some lube, spend more time fingering/eating out etc? There’s literally no excuse for his behaviour. As a man he can 100% control himself and just doesn’t care about you enough to ensure your comfort/pleasure during sex.

7

Like we don’t do a lot of foreplay and he always does this early on when having actual sex so I don’t get a chance to get aroused/adjust and it’s not pleasurable to me and I feel like he’s just using my body. He said I’m crazy and that I hurt his feelings when I comment on our sex life & he doesn’t like to discuss what we do in bed.

6

Either he’s lying and genuinely doesn’t have self-control. Either way you don’t want to be with a person like that

6

No yeah he’s making an excuse. I like rough too but if my girl asks me to slow down I will slow down. He doesn’t care

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Naive

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