
Intimacy is a normal part of a relationship that is essential (imo) for communication and deeper bonding. That being said, “interested” and “expecting” I feel like are two very different things. A lot men expect sex in a relationship rather and take it as something that is a necessity or a right rather than a privilege
you are genuinely living in a fantasy world if you think anyone is actually shaming men for having sex oh my god. this is like the shit on tumblr talking about “let boys be masculine <3” like take one step outside of the echo chamber you’ve trapped yourself in and realize 99.9% of society agrees with you and is in fact based off of the prioritization of men’s pleasure in sex