It is. Telling men it’s okay to assume that drunk women become drunk with the intent to have sex with someone, or that it’s possible to consent under the influence, is what leads to so many women being raped. You have to communicate your consent while you still can

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Your post is explaining to men that worrying about someone’s consent after they’ve taken substances is something that should only be happening in YA novels and it’s not. Having an intoxication kink is fine, but kinks require consent, and that consent has to be given before it happens. Your post encourages rape culture

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Women can contribute to rape culture just as much as men do. Your post is encouraging men to care less about consent under the influence, which contributes to rape culture. Be normal

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Anonymous #1 1w

Idk why they're downvoting you you're right. If anything, kinks/sex without proper consent or communication seems like the actual cringe thing that keeps showing up in YA novels that we shouldn't replicate 😅

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Anonymous #1 1w

Going to have to agree…he did the right thing! You should tell him b/4 hand or he should say no!

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