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I get so icked out by girls who can’t stay single for more than a month. This girl I knew literally was dating someone from our hometown and then next thing I know she’s dating a frat guy at her new college. like ew
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Anonymous 1d

I know someone like this, and it’s not just relationship hopping either they always make their whole identity abt the bf.

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Anonymous 1d

I have a friend like this. I don’t think it’s gross or icky, I just think it is because of some underlying mental health/ self esteem issues that she doesn’t want to admit

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Anonymous 1d

Let girls have fun

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Anonymous 1d

so you’re saying that she’d rather hookup with these guys instead of getting into a relationship? i’m just making sure i’m understanding you right

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Anonymous 1d

Everyone’s different, if they like relationships let them live

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I just feel like their whole identity is being in a relationship and their man. like some people need to learn to just be single

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Is this person single now or

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

nope. she’s still relationship hopping.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

no. I’m saying she gets into relationships, breaks up, then gets into another one right after.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21h

if that’s ur idea of having fun then go ahead. I just think it’s kinda sad on top of it being a little icky when they make it their whole personality. And this is coming from a girl btw

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

so you would rather have them hook up with people instead

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

never said that. I don’t even like hook up culture. you’re just taking it out of proportion

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

well, the only options is she fucks random guys or she gets into relationship with them so which one would you rather have her do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

thats not the only options tho. you’re taking it way out of proportion and honestly, taking it too personally. there’s always just being single and not hooking up with anyone. Just because people are in relationships doesn’t mean they’re sleeping together. I didn’t sleep with any of the guys I dated. I’m also single right now and I’m not hooking up with anyone. There’s options. I’m just saying that sometimes, people just need to learn to be single and sexless 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

yeah but if they want to be with other people? companionship is a great thing so why are you so against someone else’s happiness?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

I’m not. I just feel like they have no personality outside of relationships which is sad. I fear not having an identity outside of relationships is lwk an issue of one’s own mental well being

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

yeah but like i already said they like the company so whats wrong with that? everyone has their own personality and sometimes just feel more comfortable when they have someone else around, who are you to be hating on their comfortability?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13h

yeah there’s no reasoning with someone like you 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

there’s no reasoning with a hateful soul like you that wants to judge someone else’s happiness

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

again, I’m not hating and personally I don’t think someone is happy if the rely on others for comfort, happiness, and more

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