Anonymous #1 18h

You lied to your partner for multiple years (assuming since they’re thinking of proposing) that’s grounds for breaking up

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Anonymous #1 14h

Lying is unconsensual. Don’t try and moralize something pretty bad.

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Anonymous #2 13h

Yeah lying is not cool. But the thing she lied about literally had nothing to do with him and still doesn’t unless she’s still sleeping with other men. He’s upset at her past cause she was sexually active…that’s controlling. He’s mad she had sex 37 times before she met him.

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Anonymous #5 13h

What did she need him to consent to by telling him her body count? Whether she lied or not. Her sleeping with other men BEFORE him is not something pretty bad. His judgement on her use of her own autonomy is pretty bad…bet he applauds his male friends who have 37 bodies

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Anonymous #2 13h

But the amount of people she slept with doesn’t affect u unless ur bothered u can’t control and “devalue” women based on how many people they slept with. And all those examples u listed probably have wayyyy more bodies than the women ur trying to shame. Stupid ass nigga

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Anonymous #1 13h

Based off the info op gave it seems important enough. It not being important to you is your standard which you shouldn’t feel comfortable placing that on other people. He clearly cares about lying about something like that because the potential of stds. Her lying was nonconsensual and weird because it appears to be something with enough importance to warrant his reaction to her lying to him. You wouldn’t be defending his actions if it were the other way around

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Anonymous #5 13h

there is no potential for stds if that all happened before him and she was clean when they got together 😭 worrying about cheating is a completely different issue than worrying about body count. only one of those carries and std risk

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Anonymous #1 12h

You’re trying your hardest to turn me into some demon when i’ve clearly stated the lying is the problem. That’s no different from lying about political beliefs or morals. What if the man had specific values about sex and she lied about hers just to get the man? Why are you defending manipulation and trying to make this a body count argument 😂 fucking loser

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Anonymous #1 11h

That’s like someone being a democrat and some maga fuck says he’s liberal to get into her pants. We would ALL agree that dude is a piece of shit. You’re just too busy putting words in someone’s mouth and trying to push a narrative of body count doesn’t matter like it doesn’t show someone’s morals. A person who views sex as an intimate act with a partner vs someone who views it as an activity to feel good are NOT the same and if you think that’s a “little white lie” you’re intentionally ignorant.

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Anonymous #2 11h

Bruh u stated the lying and made it a bigger fucking deal on how many she fucked. That’s why u mentioned the NFL and blah blah blah. And what kinda values are that a women should have a specific body count? That’s just personal preference for what ever fucked up internal reason. And she didn’t manipulate anybody, I would say he was more manipulating with asking that question and now debating marrying her cause of all the people she slept with before him😂

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