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“You a guy or a girl???” - literally only guys ask this
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Anonymous 21h

Um wrong?? I’m a woman who asks this CONSTANTLY bc I’ll make a post where the only replies I want to talk to are women but the DMs will just be like “oh so what’s that like?” I’ll ask if they’re a man. What a weird take.

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Anonymous 20h

Yeah no woman ask this too cuz we don’t want to be talking to some perv who is getting off on the conversation

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Anonymous 16h

nah nah, I’ve seen some women ask out of concern for safety. “M or F” however, is straight rancid

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Anonymous 14h

wrong a guy would be like m or f get it right!!!!

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Anonymous 19h

I feel knowing the gender of who you are speaking to is very important. Maybe it’s because i’ve never sexted and wouldn’t, but I feel like it’s a pretty innocent question. Almost met up with a guy bc i thought they were a woman

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Anonymous 21h

DEADASS

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Anonymous 1d

U a guy or a girl

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Anonymous 20h

Guys asks this because we dont know whos transgender. Confusing world we live in

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

that’s not even relevant to the question but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

except it literally is? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 16h

are you just gonna say “yuh huh” with no explanation or are you gonna explain why you believe so

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 16h

do you really need someone to explain how 2+2=4

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 15h

I’d like for you to explain how your stance isn’t based in some transphobic “logic,” seems like you’re gonna keep dancing around it tho lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12h

there’s nothing transphobic about wanting to know someones sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 6h

if you think a trans person would respond to “are you a guy or a girl” with their AGAB, then you’re delusional lmao

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