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Confessions 10w
I think I want to have kids but I’m also not ready accept sacrificing parts of me for motherhood and I don’t know if I ever will be
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Anonymous 10w

I feel like exact way and it makes me terrified of having kids but I want them :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

For me personally until I can accept the sacrifices I have no plans of having kids. I’d rather spend the rest of my life with part of me wanting kids than ever resenting my kids or being a bad mom

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