A little nervous that my long distance situationship guy (idk wtf we are we say I love u & he buys me stuff & we make future plans together but refuses to date) is going to want to go through my phone 😬 idk what to do
The other comments are right, why are you letting him go through ur phone. But also, why r u nervous about him doing so?
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Anonymous4w
Why would he go through your phone and you're not even together
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Anonymous4w
shouldn’t be nervous if you got nothing to hide
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Anonymous#24w
That’s the thing we do all the things as if we are together but every time I bring up officializing us he shoots it down
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AnonymousOP4w
That doesn't answer my question lol why would he go through your phone and you're not even together
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Anonymous#24w
I’m trying to explain that like we are together & do and act exactly like a couple but he just won’t put a name to it so like it’s this weird he has a right to look through it but he also doesn’t bc we aren’t together but if I refuse he’ll get mad bc we are kinda together yk?
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AnonymousOP4w
then stop giving him official-level privileges & certainly don’t let him go through your phone. if he can’t commit he doesn’t deserve any of that
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AnonymousOP4w
You're not together though lol he doesn't have a right to look because he has explicitly told you that you're not together. Who cares if he gets mad lol he already told he hes not your bf and he doesn't wanna date you