Anonymous #1 4w

I wish I could relate. Always feeling judged or like I gotta prove something to my own family is draining in itself

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Anonymous #2 4w

They just have by stander syndrome and pick sides too much. They see something and they don’t say something. And it’s come to a point where I don’t feel like I can speak causally with my distant family without it being leaked and used against me

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Anonymous OP 4w

Oh so they’re immature and gossipy/ non-confrontational lol. Yeah I mean if you really don’t like them just keep your distance, be polite and respectful if they talk to you and just talk about boring things for now on (like school/work). Sounds like they love conflict and me personally I just learn to stay neutral and change topics with people like that.

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Anonymous OP 4w

I see my extended family like once per year and just that is fucking awful. They all wear these tight smiles and eye me like I'm delinquent gutter trash. All I want to do is start fist fighting everyone. I can't imagine having to be around that more than once per year.

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Anonymous #2 4w

It’s been going on for a while and I’m just not the same person I was. I’m not reactive anymore and I’m not angry at the world I don’t have the energy to fight or argue so I’m just wanting to keep my own peace

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