Not really we're not friends

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Anonymous #2 35w

Why can't we go on dates?

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Anonymous #3 35w

Why doesn't it make sense?

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Anonymous OP 35w

So you’re “dating” but you aren’t friends, don’t like each other, yet are going on dates and having sex. So it is a situationship or fuck buddy you just aren’t calling it that

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Anonymous #4 35w

Literally. Like she’s in a situationship she’s just making it way more complicated by not calling it that. Or it’s a f buddy

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Anonymous #4 35w

It's not really a "situation" in the context of what a situationship is though. Like it's very straightforward what it is and what it isn't

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Anonymous #3 35w

We're both dating, we just go on dates. It's not a situationship because there's no situation to be figured out. We're not fuck buddies because we're not friends.

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Anonymous #3 35w

It's not a situationship though lol I could be doing this with multiple people at the same time

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Anonymous OP 35w

If you’re going on dates you’re at least good enough friends to call this a fwb😭 like if you don’t even like them enough to call them a friend why go on dates? Why not just keep it strictly hooking up?

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Anonymous OP 35w

I mean a situationship does not require exclusivity that’s actually the point or else it’d be a relationship lol

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Anonymous #4 35w

Not really. I've gone on dates with people I literally didn't like lol that doesn't mean anything. We're not friends because we don't do things that friends do like I'm not inviting this man to anything and we're not just casually hanging out when we're bored or texting all day. You go on dates so when you have sex it's better because you've already been hanging out for a few hours so it's not just awkwardly jumping in. It's all about comfort and tension my friend

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Anonymous #4 35w

No but I'm saying nobody is in several situationships lol

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Anonymous OP 35w

You can still call that a fwb in this context. Like you’re really overthinking the “friend” aspect of it lmao but I mean it’s your situation so whatever label you want is fine I just find it a little silly

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Anonymous #4 35w

I don't think I'm overthinking it lol the word friend is there for a reason

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Anonymous #4 35w

It’s not overthinking it’s blatantly not calling it what it is. It’s a f buddy that goes on dates. She’s just making it way more complicated.

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Anonymous OP 35w

Also admitting you go on dates with people you don’t like is wild

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Anonymous #3 35w

How would I know I don't like somebody if I don't go on 1 or 2 dates with them?

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Anonymous #3 35w

How am I making things complicated just by saying I'm not in a situationship

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Anonymous OP 35w

you can not go on dates and not call this a situationship please don’t act purposely obtuse

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Anonymous #2 35w

I'm gonna keep going on dates lol but there are people in situationships who literally don't go on dates idk why you're making that the defining factor of what is or isn't a situationship

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Anonymous #2 35w

It's casual dating. I think anyone in a situationship is either in emotional turmoil or villainous lol nobody involved in what I have going on is either of those things

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Anonymous OP 35w

nobody said you couldn’t go on dates but how are you gonna be in situations with somebody.. and say ur not in situations 😂

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Anonymous #2 35w

At the end of the day everyone else sees this as a situationship regardless so

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Anonymous #2 35w

Because I'm not in situations with any of these men lol like what does it even mean to be in a situation

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Anonymous #2 35w

We're not in a situation, we are simply involved with each other 🙂‍↕️

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Right. But this doesn't lack clear definition and it's not more than a friendship lol we're not even friends. we don't act like a couple we just go on dates before we have sex. There's more to being a couple than that

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Anonymous OP 35w

You’re involved!! That’s a situation He’s putting dick inside you that’s a situation 😭😭😭

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Anonymous #2 35w

I mean so is making a PowerPoint with my coworker, am I in a situationship with them? I sure am with them more and they know more about my life

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Anonymous OP 35w

Because I would think you at least like someone if you agree to go on a date and spend time with them. Even if it’s a little you still like them or find them interesting. From how it sounded you just go on dates to get free meals

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Anonymous OP 35w

Because it is a situationship. You just aren’t calling it that

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