Anonymous #1 1d

OMG there was a post about how we should normalize double texting and I responded to it and then someone DM’d me and then he acted all surprised when I triple texted like dude did you even read the post or my comment 😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

That’s insane 💀

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Anonymous #1 1d

LITERALLY 😭

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Anonymous #1 1d

Like I’m going to text you as many times as I fucking want and if you don’t like it just tell me and then I’ll block you

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Anonymous OP 1d

Fr! And the “it’s giving desperate,” (real thing I was told), like our conversations don’t have to be a game of mental chess

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Anonymous #2 1d

All I wanna do is text and text thoughts, line by line if need be. I am ok with it in return. I expect it.

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Anonymous #1 1d

That’s actually crazy, like I am desperate but that’s why we’re talking if I wasn’t desperate then i wouldn’t be talking to you(That would be my response to the douche who sent you that)

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Anonymous #1 1d

No but seriously as a society we’ve lost the art of conversation like when you watch a movie or have an actual conversation you’re not like saying one sentence and then letting the other person say something and vice versa like it’s supposed to be multiple things and rambling that’s how conversation works

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Anonymous OP 1d

I told her, “I like you, I want to talk to you. So I’m gonna try to talk to you. It really is that simple.”

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Anonymous #1 1d

That’s so valid

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Anonymous #2 1d

Yesss

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yes! Every day I meet people within our own generation who performs the equivalent of a conversational “gen z stare.” And the opposite is true with debating. I’ve seen it incredibly often with all the content that’s been pushed this election cycle. People can’t speak to each other with any level of nuance. It’s a shame, really

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Anonymous #1 1d

Valid

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Anonymous #3 1d

I think you should just yap to your partner, if they truly care about you than it shouldn’t bother them, and if they say something like “but I was doing something important” then you say “well your phone should’ve been off”, like for me I just want to yap, I don’t care if you respond until later or until the next time I see you

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Anonymous OP 1d

I wish I could, but he has had been working in an intensive field our entire relationship and it makes me feel very alone.

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Anonymous #3 1d

What field? Also if you feel alone you should talk to him about it or maybe he’s not the one for you? Partners shouldn’t make you feel isolated and you should feel comfortable talking to them.

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Anonymous OP 1d

He works for a General Contractor he’s a Project Engineer I almost barely get to see him or talk to him ever and at times I feel like he doesn’t enjoy hearing me talk so like yeah… I only got back on here just to like feel some sense of community and I’m lowkey considering grad school or smth.

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Anonymous #3 1d

He doesn’t sound like “The One” if you ask me… also if you’re so unhappy that you think he doesn’t even like you… why stay???

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Anonymous #3 1d

Girl I wish I knew the feeling, honestly my bluntness is probably why I’ve never been in a relationship

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Anonymous #5 1d

Literally never met someone who doesn’t do the same back btw 😭 I promise y’all that you’re holding yourself back for no reason

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Anonymous #5 1d

If you text them 5x in a row or in spurts while they’re busy, there’s no way they’re gonna be like “damn, they yappin” or something respond to you with one long ahh paragraph to address everything you said

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Anonymous #5 1d

Bc A) clearly you wanna talk to them so they’ll be like aight and talk back, and B) ain’t no way in hell they’re gonna be able to respond back to you without multiple texts in a row if you text them enough times lmao

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Anonymous #5 1d

Throw shit at the wall see what works ahh Strat (it lowk works)

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Anonymous #4 1d

Always has always will

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Anonymous #5 1d

See I do this with my friends but when I’m like “talking” with someone they do this, I literally made the post because this happened to me. I was yapping and they fr was shocked that I sent multiple texts and acted like it was a problem. This happened multiple times btw.

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Anonymous #5 1d

Except it doesn’t always work

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Anonymous #5 1d

I’m not holding back though, I didn’t know what double text meant until this situation started happening to me where people would get annoyed.

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