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Is it wrong to lower your standards in order to find someone?
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Anonymous 33w

You shouldn’t settle and be unhappy, also can’t help who you find attractive so your standards are your standards and you shouldn’t be ashamed of that

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Anonymous 33w

Your standards should be what you can realistically get. So you should either raise them or lower them with that tin mind. However women often times don’t understand what they realistically can get

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Anonymous 33w

depends which standards you’re lowering

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Anonymous 33w

No, a lot of people do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

I don’t think I can realistically get much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

Then either improve or get what you can get

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 33w

Can’t improve looks so I’ll honestly settle for anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

All of them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 33w

fr? even about them being respectful to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 33w

I mean they don’t gotta be 100% good to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 33w

I just want someone like my ex again but they set the bar too high and I feel anything I do will be settling

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